how can I get him to desire me again?

[summer809]

hi everyone.
so I went out with this guy a couple of times and we after some nights just spent kissing we finally had sex. No I did not hear anything from him for the last 2 days until I texted him and he responded. Does that mean he totally lost interest in me? Is there anyway I can win back his interest and make him desire me again?
thank you for any advice.
regards

[BackUpOrGetStng]

I wouldn't say he's lost interest, as much, as he never had any interest beyond sex.

[eddiedelgado]

I agree he just wanted to have sex with you and now he is not interested in you anymore. Go on with your life. You will find something better. Good luck.

[Negan]

He lost interest.... or rather, he never had any interest in you
That's what happens if you give yourself too easily.

[Wakeup]

Why didn't you ask him what was up before you left him after having sex? A simple "so, what now" would have gotten you some kind of answer from the one person that could actually give you an answer.

[searock]

He lost interest.... or rather, he never had any interest in you
That's what happens if you give yourself too easily.

Nah, this is what happens when you go out with someone who is only interested in the sex you might give him.

In other words, even if she hadn't "given herself easily", he still wouldn't have been interested in her.

[Wakeup]

^^^ Maybe so, but Op is too naive to realize that and a good line like: "that's what happens when you give yourself too eaisly" is deserved in her case. She needs to ascertain if they value her before she fvcks them if she's going to lament about "how to regain his interest" when he never had it.

[searock]

She needs to ascertain if they value her before she fvcks them if she's going to lament about "how to regain his interest" when he never had it.

I agree - she should have realized that he was never interested to begin with.