Hello!
People think of me as that guy, to who girls go to get laid, and this is not a good thing, if you want a serious relationship. I somehow like that there are no obligations and everything, but i'm always the other guy. i'm always on the second place.
Wich wouldn't be bad, if i hadn't had feelings for this girl. we've known each other for quite a while and fooled arround a bit (she was single) but never had sex coz we really get along great and have a great friendship. i won't go into details how we understand each-other and that sleezy stuff... but it's all happening, and i'm ready to settle down.
and here's the problem. she just started going out again with a guy she had a very serious and f**ked up relationship with that lasted 7 years... and she still has feelings for the bastard.
that's why she doesn't want to get involved with me (she wants to, but wants to try to work it out with that other guy one more time...) and she tricked me! we went out, had fun, got to my place and she wanted to sleep over. i said yes, gave her a big t-shirt and offered her a bed (i have an empty bed in my room, my roommate went home for the weekend) but she wanted to be in the same bed with me. i didn't want to sleep with her, but... well, you know.
and now she's all worried about that guy finding out and i just became a mistake instead of a good friend with good potencial i was before. so she got me off her mind.
and the big question... shoud i fight for her? she's determined to try it one more time with that other guy, but the thing is i don't allow myself to be the second choice. i have enough of that with sex-buddys who have serious boyfriends and I absolutely don't want it with my future girlfriend, whoever she will be.
just a note... i've never cheated on a girl in my life, and don't intend to start anytime soon. i'm just never in a relationship coz i don't get along with most girl as well as i would like to. high standards i think...
so, what do you think? is there anything i could do after she tricked me? i know i should have said no but... i didn't
(i really like her and we were a little drunk)