I have been seeing this guy for almost a year, the first time we met I laughed at the thought of anything serious. We became pretty good friends did more friendly stuff then dating stuff. (Sporting events instead of dinners type thing). We ended up spending a lot of time together and we are now living together. My problem is there is no emotional connection between us. I know he cares for me and my kids a great deal, but when it comes time to talk about where the relationship is at it's, "im not ready to think about settling down"
He has helped me through a great deal including my divorce. He moved in to take over paying for rent to allow me to catch up on my bills. He is wonderful with my kids, constantly spoiling them but also making sure they get the necessities of life.
Everything about our relationship would be considered "dating" except the emotional aspect. I find myself stuck wanting more but unable to communicate it.
There are so many angles to my story but I will start here........