is he just not in to me?

[overthinker]

I have developed a crush on my friends cousin. My friend had taken me to his house several times before we finally hooked up at a party. It was definately heading for the bedroom had we both not been so intoxicated. So, i sent him a text to let him know that i was keen if he ever wanted to pick up where we left off. I recieved no reply. My friend then told me that there have been some issues in the past between her sister, her sister's friends and her cousin with similar situations. She told me maybe he felt it would creat a disturbance between them both. She also felt her sister was already concerned as she had seen us at the party. I took it as a "you win some, you lose some" situation. I thought there was some real chemistry.
My friend asked me to come with her on night back to her cousins house. Things were extremely awkward for me but he was acting as if nothing had happened. We all started painting pictures on a wall in his back yard. I had paint all over my hands. He showed me to his bathroom as it was the only one with soap - typical bacholar pad! He was getting so close to me in this rather large bathroom. He put his hand on my lower back as he came back with a fresh towel for me. I could have powered the whole state with the amont of sexual energypulsating through my body. Instead of my urges being satisfied he returned to the rest of the group. Aftee an uncordinated hug goodbye my friend and i left.
I still felt like there was something there, but is it all just one way? He has now invited my friend and i over for dinner with his house mates. A secret blind date for one of his housemates and my friend. It was an optional invitation from the mouth of my friend. Im unsure if i want to go...? Will it be as uncomfortable as last time? How does he feel about it all? Did he eveb like me a little bit? Was it a drunken accident? Was i too forward about the whole thing? Was the history between him and my friends sister just an excuse? Is he just as guttered about it all as i am? .... Help! :-(

[smackie9]

Tip: guys don't think or feel the way you do.

Relax, nothing except maybe death will prevent a guy from wanting sex. If he wants the f uck you he will. Give it some time....if you are hot enough it will eventually happen.

[overthinker]

Sounds like your right on the money :-) but i hate playing the waiting game! haha thankyou