Need Some Male Insight

[karablund]

My friend and I have been hooking up and having a FWB relationship for the last 8ish months. We have been friends for 4 years and are very close. Obviously we aren't exclusive and he has another girl he hooks up with pretty regularly..

Last night, he got drunk and told me he loves me. This isn't uncommon and he does it from time to time, but I just write it off as him being drunk. We never really talk about it later because he either "doesn't remember" or it never comes up. However, this morning, he brought up telling me he loves me in casual conversation.

Basically, do you think he loves me? Why does he only say things like that drunk? If he truly loves me, why is he with this other girl too? Any insight is appreciated..

[RipVanWinkleX]

Ask him. Do you feel like you love him?

[karablund]

I don't know. I obviously do because we've been friends for so long, but I don't know if it is more than that..

[haxan]

Basically, do you think he loves me?

Possibly.

If he truly loves me, why is he with this other girl too?

Because you permit it.

[BackUpOrGetStng]

The fact that you permit may also make him think the feelings are not returned.

[Fruitsss]

do u know what love is? start finding that out first.
then u dont have to ask such a stupid question.

love can grow with time. so u cant talk about love in days or months or couple of years.