To the girls: What should I text her?

[Ryder]

Ok if you want a full background on my situation, my other thread is in the Love Advice Forum. Please read it if you want

Anyways, the girl I'm texting always seems enthusiastic when texting. (exclamation points, somewhat long texts). I always start the conversations now, and I usually want to text her every day, but I pace myself. I usually find out I have nothing that much to talk about so I just ask her what she is doing that day and her plans and whatnot. I saw that she did a painting on instagram a few weeks ago and I told her it was really good and stuff (because it really was good!) and we talked for an hour or so via text about it and she explained it all to me. I usually let her have the last text, when the conversation kind of dies.

so here are my questions:

1.) What do girls like talking about? I don't wanna just start a lame "hello" text. I mean I know most of her interests, so should I just start asking her about those?
2.) It's good to let them have the last text, right? I always heard people say it'll keep the girl guessing.
3.) Does it really make you girls wonder if the guy texts you back like 20-30 minutes later? Does it really make you think, "hmm..I wonder what he's doing?"
4.) Is texting every day too much?

Advice please ladies!

[Cerby]

Did you know you can also use your phone to call this girl?

[basilandthyme]

So, we're talking about you texting the girl who's not that into you?

At any rate, I'm with Cerby. Pick up the phone and have an actual conversation with her.

[HeartIsAching]

Did you know you can also use your phone to call this girl?

Yup... it's not a mobile typewriter, it's a mobile phone. USE IT.

[Ryder]

We're friends. We hang out with the same people. And she hates talking on the phone with anyone, she's a big texter. jeez

[Dying_Heart]

Whatever feels comfortable and don't over think it.

[Fruitsss]

ask your parents. this is stupid to put a list what and how. its not our job.

[Wakeup]

So, we're talking about you texting the girl who's not that into you?

At any rate, I'm with Cerby. Pick up the phone and have an actual conversation with her.

Better yet, ask her out and have the conversation in person.

We're friends. We hang out with the same people. And she hates talking on the phone with anyone, she's a big texter. jeez

So what if she's a big texter. Texting with her is getting you ZERO progress with her so change it up. If she won't change it up then forget about her and find someone who lives life instead of writes about it.

[smackie9]

You hang out together with friends as friends? You are friend zoned. You don't need to worry about carrying on a convo if she isn't interested in dating you. That is just my opinion.

Second choice: Stop wasting your time with all this fluff. Ask her out on a date if you think you have a chance. Chatting with her and how you chat with her doesn't increase your desirability.