Sexual Differences

[PoptheCherry]

Hello Everyone!

I just wanted to get different opinions on this. Me and a few of my friends were discussing this. I am a African American female and recently broke up with my Ex who happens to be Caucasion. Im not a prude or anything but I could not get into some of the sexual things he wanted to do. For me, the things he wanted to do was almost something I would consider "special or different" but to him it was just a part of sex. He could be really rough. Almost dominating, like wanting to gag me (orally) and do me anally, ( I dont know if thats a word). Some of the things I dont even want to get into because it was too much. He asked me once did I want him to lick my ass? Of course I said yes. Then he had the nerve to say he would do me if I did him. Uhm...Hell no! Anyway, it was like all the time to the point where I started to get sort of turned off. When I ended the relationship, he said Okay fine but can we still have sex? I felt kind of used because I wonder if he had some sort of fetish for me as a African American woman becasue he was just so obessesed with me sexually. A relative of mine told me that if I was going to date outside my race like that to get whatever and all I can from him because its a fantasy for him and I need to be sure I can get something out of the deal.

Is this normal with white guys? The black guys I had wasnt like this. Neither was other races. He was by far the wildest. They were freaky but this guy was just a little nasty for my taste. Does different races have sex differently or does it just depends on the person? I am not talking bad about different races but I want to know.

[smackie9]

No this has nothing to do with race, it's just what he was brought up on. He got his sexual education from watching a lot of porn. He has no clue what a respectful loving relationship is. You are right it's just all about his own sexual gratification. You just chose the wrong white guy to date.

[Boisdevie]

His sexual tastes are different to yours. Nothing to do with race at all. Just happens.

[fearoflove]

Black women has always been looked at as sexual objects. He probably thought he can be this "freaky" with you because you are black. He is dating you so he live out his sexual fantasies.

[AdminOnline]

it just happen you met a crazy sex addicted dude.
Good luck. I feel this relationship is just all about sex only.

[rhondagraymond]

that guy sounds like a sexomaniac! and all the things he wanna do is , i think he's not mentally stable.
stay far stay safe

[PradaChanel]

Pop the cherry Huh?

Anyway, my boyfriend is from Brazil, he's not white but hes more on that side in my opinion. Anyway, when we first got together his sexual wants was different. He was way more into certain things then I was. I did like the majority of it but sometimes my nose would be turned up, like what the hell babe? But he had to learn to be paitent and take his time with me and it would get offensive because he would be like he trained me...okay whatever. But sometimes I think other races do get off on black women because I think my man did at first. So I agree with fear of love stmt.

Tell him how you feel. I know I had to. If you dont like that shit, you dont like it. If he really love you and not just your cherry he will tone it down.

[Boisdevie]

Tell him how you feel. I know I had to. If you dont like that shit, you dont like it. If he really love you and not just your cherry he will tone it down.

Disagree. People have different sexual tastes and levels of desire. You're just not compatible sexually. In the long run it's not going to work.

[wisdomeze]

Completely nothing to do with race. This Guy just want his own sexual interest satisfied and that's all. I would be wary of such a person.

[PradaChanel]

Disagree. People have different sexual tastes and levels of desire. You're just not compatible sexually. In the long run it's not going to work.

Yes People do have different tastes and desire. However, I have went through this personally and I became open to some things and he toned it down for me and took his time and our sex life is real goooooooooooood...........

Then again, my boyfriend didnt have to tone it down as much because I was real open to trying things and I liked it. So it just depends on the person. Some people if they really love the person will tone it down.