Feelings for 2 people?

[rayna]

The first guy was someone I was seeing before I graduated but things didn't work out because I moved to another city and we weren't that close to make it LDR. We still stayed in touch but not consistently.

Half a year go by....Second guy I met in my new city because everyone kept telling me to get over the first guy. We've been talking for awhile and just started seeing each other.

Now I get a call from the first guy saying he wants to spend New Years with me... My feelings for him came back when we talked. I feel stuck :/

[PradaChanel]

The second guy sounds like a rebound. Your not fully over the first guy, thats why its important to give yourself time unless YOU are really ready. It doesnt matter what everyone else was telling you. Just kick it with both of them with no strings attached. I wouldnt put all my hope into the first one you liked because its no telling what he wants. He could jus tbe going through the motions. missing you. Who knows? Take your time.

[Boisdevie]

Now I get a call from the first guy saying he wants to spend New Years with me... My feelings for him came back when we talked. I feel stuck :/

Well that's not going to solve the distance problem is it sweetie? You're not stuck, you're just being stupid.

[basilandthyme]

IF you moved away from guy #1 and you didn't stay in contact consistently, then he can't be all that fabulous. And his actions show that he wasn't totally smitten by you either. Perhaps you live in a city where NYE is impressive? It could simply be that he wants to take a break and you live in a good destination.