Dating 2 years, feelin' bored.

[EllieN]

Opinions anyone? Ive been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years now (we are in our early 20s), and frankly, I feel kind of bored. I'm not the type that has to be doing something at all times to be happy or entertained. In fact, my favorite thing to do to hang out with friends and such is just sit around and talk and have fun. Anyways, everything we do seems just normal to me and if we try to do something fun, I now start to think it would be more fun with someone else. How horrible! I dont know where this came from or if it is just a dumb phase, but it's throwin' me for a loop. It's starting to make me feel unhappy with the relationship all because I am having these thoughts, which isn't good either. Hes a really good boyfriend and I love him, but this makes me feel like I am not IN love with him anymore, but I know couples go through that. I dont know, its all weird to me right now, and difficult to think about.
Anyone have a similar problem before? Or any advice? Thanks in advance!

[CoolStoryBro]

Yeah, 2 years is a long time to listen to the same persons pish. I'm in my 3rd year with my bird and it's as boring as a week in jail. I combat this by ignoring the bitch, playing my playstation, and trolling folks on the internet. I'd leave her, but I just cant be ****ed finding someone else, and I cant blow myself. To be fair, she makes a decent sandwich.

[EllieN]

so much love in one paragraph, I cried a little. by the way, panera makes great sandwiches

[basilandthyme]

Anyone have a similar problem before? Or any advice? Thanks in advance!

Yep, I know the problems well. I bet having sex with him is not on your list of priorities either. It's time to end things.

And don't worry......when you meet The One, you won't end up feeling bored after 2 years.

[CoolStoryBro]

Dont have a go at me. You're the one that hates her bf and thinking about having an affair. Me, i'm just talking here.

[CoolStoryBro]

Yep, I know the problems well. I bet having sex with him is not on your list of priorities either. It's time to end things.

And don't worry......when you meet The One, you won't end up feeling bored after 2 years.

Yeah she will.

[EllieN]

Meh. sad. How do you even end things? Haha, serious question. I dont know what I would say or how I would deal after that. It's not like anything went horrible or someone did something horrible..except me...breaking up with him..cuz im HORRIBLE. But really, I feel like a piece of shiaat.

[CoolStoryBro]

Meh. sad. How do you even end things? Haha, serious question. I dont know what I would say or how I would deal after that. It's not like anything went horrible or someone did something horrible..except me...breaking up with him..cuz im HORRIBLE. But really, I feel like a piece of shiaat.

Buy him a playstation 3, then ditch his ass. Like a good a good news/bad news situation.

[CoolStoryBro]

........or get a cat. You can do a lot of good thinking while walking your cat.

[EllieN]

Haha we both already have a playstation 3 and we both have an xbox...so im screwed in that department! Also, just to be clear, I would never have an affair, it was just the thought of like "oh crap, I dont know if this is fun anymore"

[EllieN]

Getting a cat would be great if I wanted to another living thing to also not like me

[CoolStoryBro]

Why? Who else doesnt like you? Plus cats like everyone, apart from jews. Well mine doesnt like jews, yours might like them.

[basilandthyme]

Meh. sad. How do you even end things? Haha, serious question. I dont know what I would say or how I would deal after that. It's not like anything went horrible or someone did something horrible..except me...breaking up with him..cuz im HORRIBLE. But really, I feel like a piece of shiaat.

You just have to tell him that it's not working for you anymore. And yes, it is shitty to have to hurt someone....but it's even shittier to keep a relationship going because you're lacking the courage to end it.

Do you live together?

[basilandthyme]

Buy him a playstation 3, then ditch his ass. Like a good a good news/bad news situation.

One of my friends was given a new vibrator as a breakup present

[CoolStoryBro]

One of my friends was given a new vibrator as a breakup present

That's another new poster you've scared away basil, just as I was getting to the root of her troubles.