Hello ladies,
So here's the deal. I'm deeply in love with my girlfriend. We are both in our late 30s and have been dating for almost a year. Oh yeah this is a package deal, she has an adorable little girl that I also love and care for. My girlfriend has told me that she loves me and cares for me but is not in love with me. I have accepted that and appreciate her honesty and loyalty to me. She came out of a really bad divorce a few months before we started dating, so I understand why she is not in a hurry to put her guard down, however I have been feeling kind of unappreciated lately because I put 110 percent into this relationship and will do pretty much anything for her her and her daughter. Her parents came in from out of town for a few weeks for the holidays and she has decided to not tell them she has a boyfriend because she says her mother is really strict. I was kind of disappointed because it made me feel unimportant to her. I also felt that was something a teenager would do. I have not seen her for Xmas nor will see her for new years and I'm bummed out about it. Am I wasting my time with her or am I over reacting?