Hi Everyone,
I'm 35 and have been dating this girl (also 35) for 18months - up to this point we have been very close and care about each other deeply. I've had a lot of stress at work lately and I guess I've been quite needy with her. This has resulted in her starting to feel very smothered in the relationship - she has said that she feels that she needs some space for herself to figure things out. In hindsight I can see how I may have been overly demanding of her attention but I acknowledge this now and have told her so.
So now things are awkward between us - it's been two months and contact has been very limited. I am trying to respect her space but at the same time I feel that any time I text or contact her that I'm irritating her. Do I need to stop contacting her altogether and leave it up to her to contact me if/when she feels like it ? and is there anything that I can do to reassure her (other than just repeatedly telling her) that I've realized the error of my smothering ways ?
Thanks,
Lor