Hi guys!
Okay, so I thought I would come to this site to get some of your thoughts about my situation. I'll try to make it a short read.
... Bf and I dated, broke up because he felt like he wasn't being a good bf to me. Kept texting me .. not even a month later comes to my house to hang out. We started "seeing each other" after that. We have been "seeing each other" for about 6 months now. He says and tells other people that it's exclusive between us ... that we are seeing each other just not under a legit bf/gf title. Hi best friend at home constantly bothers him about not just flat out dating me.. his mother asks him about me all the time. Everyone knows that even though we are not "dating officially" that we are still together. Some people don't realize its not a relationship unless they ask. He gets protective of us if a guy he knows asks about me being technically single.
We do everything a couple does, we spend holidays with the others family, go out together, just have movie nights, .. he works weird shifts sometimes and will get off at 5am .. asks me to stay up late and come over before he gets off and wait in his room so we can go to sleep together so we can wake up the next day together. Our relationship isn't always sex either .. there are plenty of times where nothing like that between us happens, we legit just hang out. Every time we leave each other there is a kiss goodbye. He says he just doesn't want a relationship at the moment but when I ask he always says when I do it will be with you. And he tells me that he likes me a lot and cares about me and thats why he constantly wants me around. He brings up us having children together as well... and often. I had mentioned that I'm not having a child if im not in a relationship as I want the father to be in both our lives as I feel that's a huge thing and I want my child to have both parental figures. He also brings up marriage between us. He will bring both these things up in front of other people as well. He doesn't hide me at all.. I've met the majority of his friends and his entire family knows about me. It's more than FWB. A close friend that he lives with tells me that "my boy" really cares about me a lot.
I'm only confused because why be in a "seeing each other" relationship but not an "official bf/gf" relationship?
Any thoughts? Please don't be rude.