Thanks guys for reading and hopefully replying
I met a guy around 12 months ago that I see (in a work capacity) approx 2 - 3 times a month.
I have been married for 10 years, he has been with his partner (de facto) for around 6 yrs.
3 months ago I asked him if he wanted to have sex. He said he did.
The next three times I seen him (in a work capacity) he touched me (shoulder massage, quick hug, tap on the bum) and seemed very keen.
We did set up a time for our first get together sexually but the morning of, he txtd me and said he had another person with him that day with work.
I did see him that day at random and he was nicely shaved, had haircut etc when he is normally scruffy so it appears he did make an effort.
I asked him if he still wanted to have sex and he was adamant he does but he is very busy with work and time poor..........
When I do see him in a work capacity he has all of the time in the world for me, is very friendly and flirty.....BUT still time poor apparantly. He also initiates contact with me via txt.
This guy is around 10yrs older than me and he often says things that make me think he has no problems having sex outside of his relationship but it still is not happening.
Is he scared?
Is he just not into me?
Does he like the talk and tease but has no intentions of going through with sex?
I would really like the advice of someone who would have an idea of how a 40yo man thinks