I am a 31 year old Christian woman dating a Christian man who is
27. His mother, a strong Christian with whom he is very close,
does not approve of our relationship because of our age
difference, and she refuses to even meet me. His mother has made
it very clear that she will never accept me, and never ever meet me.
Her pastor agrees with her, and they state that there is no Biblical
examples of younger men with older women. We are very much in
love, and have a really great time together. We are living in purity
(not fornicating) and striving to walk as upright Christians. We
both value family very much, and he has pleaded with his mother
to no avail. He and I have been dating for 2 years, and I am at a
crossroads. He insists that he will continue to date me no matter
what she thinks, but we are both hesitant to take our relationship
to the next level (get engaged) when we have such strong
resentment from a woman we both seek approval from. What
should we do?