Hello! I need some advice on my current relationship with my partner/father of our son. It would be greatly appreciated because I'm starting to think that we are no longer compatable. My name is *Kayla and my partners name is *Anthony. We have been together for a little over 3 years now, and we have a son together now. Now there has been some issues for a long time now that I just happened to notice after our son was born. They were probably always there but I just never noticed until I had to "grow up" ( I just turned 20 in january ). *Anthony is and still has "problems" sleeping, but this is a big problem that I put up with for 2 years now, he never sleeps at night and he is always sleeping all day. It makes me mad because he can be doing more productive things with the time he is wasting while sleeping. I asked him many times to go and see a doctor about it but he never went. Also he is pretty much a "deadbeat" I guess, I'm pretty much the one who supports him, and its starting to push me over the edge. I feel like I'm always putting more effort into pleasing him than he does with me. He doesn't have a car or a liciense so I am the one always picking him up and dropping him off ( he doesn't live with me because I don't want him in the same house, because i know he'll just cause even more problems, so he just comes over on weekends). He says he'll change and his most commonly used word is that he is "trying". I gave him from October until until now to prove it, but still nothing (I broke up with him in august becuz of these reasons, then we got back together in october, with hopes of him actually making an effort to be a better dad and partner). Another thing, when he is home with our son I'm still always the only one doing everything with our son, I'm pretty much a "single mom" during the week and on weekends I just don't think its fair that he gets to come to my house and sleep and do nothing. While I am still spending more time with our son. I am really, really starting to get fed up here. I really want to break it off for good but I am so scared because the first time I broke it off he told me all these things about how sad he was, and how he didn't have anything to live for etc.. And I hate the feeling of breaking up, I literally felt like crap everyday. I just don't know what to do anymore, it seems like either way I am not going to be happy!! Can someone please tell me what I should do? Please and thank u!!