One purpose of dating exclusively is to determine if you are well enough matched to become lifetime partners. If she is looking for a lifetime partner and found that there is something about you that doesn't fit for her, it is time to break up. That doesn't mean that you aren't committed enough, or that you aren't good enough, or that something is wrong with you. It simply means that she sees something that isn't a fit and it's enough to make her move on. A cheater is a disrespectful coward and that should be enough reason for you to break up with her.