I'm just having one of those crappy nights where I can't stop thinking of things. It's been about a month and I know I am doing better than I was in the beginning but I'm still pretty sad about everything. I feel like I'm more awake now too and realize that he doesn't want me in his life and I shouldn't want someone like that in my life. It's just hard for me to shut someone out completely that I love. I guess I'm wondering when does it stop hurting and when do you start to really breathe again? I think it's just crazy that so many of us get into these heart breaking positions where the other person doesn't feel the same way. But I guess that's life and it's a learning experience.
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07-02-13, 10:54 AM #1
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08-02-13, 04:57 AM #2
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Stay strong, time is a great healer
you will feel normal again, you will laugh again, life will go on. it just takes time. Lean on family/friends. Join a new hobby. Stay busy to distract yourself and even find yourself a rebound if you need to-just make sure he nos not to get too attached. You will be fine. Xx
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08-02-13, 09:31 PM #3
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just sometimes everything gets overwhelming and I feel like I'll never get over it, but then others I feel like I am going to be fine. Just so many ups and downs. Today is starting out good though
I think the hardest thing is that I did like him so much and have never felt that comfortable with another guy. And I guess I get worried if I'll ever feel that way again about someone else. But a rebound might be a good idea for a while, nothing too serious! Thanks!
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08-02-13, 10:26 PM #4
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Its only been a month and its normal to feel the way you feel but you will get through it and come out the other end of it feeling stronger. Even just flirt and enjoy some attention to boost your confidence. Get all dolled up, go out and tease everyone with "i know you want me but cant have me" look on your face lol. It will make you feel better
Find a friend who understands what your going through and just talk and talk and talk until you cant talk anymore. Its okay to cry too. Let it all out.
And stop worrying about never feeling that way again. There are billions of men in the world. In time, you will meet someone else, someone special who will feel the same way abut you and all this will be worth it then xx
