Help/advice

[Darkangel1967]

So down and depressed feel like my whole worlds come crashing down around my feet.
Basically met a guy from a dating site 5 months ago I love him dearly so does my mum teenage kids and my friends.
He is my rock and I thought I was his.
Practically from when we met he was my prince. Loving caring supportive and gentle
Every day and every night we have spent together
Shared a family Xmas and he showered me in gifts on my birthday and valentines
Xmas day gave me an engagement ring and proposed
Things have been just perfect untill this morning.
His mobile was left on sofa charging.
Had a nose now I'm heartbroken.
He's still on daring sites and has being texting 5 other woman and has loads of women's pics inc naked pics.
His texts also contain certain words he uses to me with plenty of xxx
I feel so sick in the stomach I feel the trust I had in his wordss of I love you have now be broken to me.
I can't talk to him about this as ill be in the wrong looking through his phone???

[pcmaster]

Dont be so insecure, hes with you right. If I met my dream girl I still would talk with other womens too because its socialy healty(helps not to lose mind because of love) and helps be cool with the one you really care about. You mentioned hes done a lot for you. Do you think he do all that with other girls as well? Words without action is nothing.

Best advice I can give about men is - dont look at words, look at actions.

I think you should talk to him. He will notice that something wrong with you anyway. It would be easyier to talk with respect and more like a friend not lover, without screaming and insulting.

[michelle23]

^ bad advice there ^

The man has proved he is untrustworthy OP. Walk away

[Wakeup]

Dont be so insecure, hes with you right. If I met my dream girl I still would talk with other womens too because its socialy healty(helps not to lose mind because of love) and helps be cool with the one you really care about. You mentioned hes done a lot for you. Do you think he do all that with other girls as well? Words without action is nothing.

Best advice I can give about men is - dont look at words, look at actions.

I think you should talk to him. He will notice that something wrong with you anyway. It would be easyier to talk with respect and more like a friend not lover, without screaming and insulting.

Sorry, Pc but you sound like one of those Men that think you marry the Madonna but the whores get to stay as long as you're discreet.

"Look at his actions" Yes, Op do look at his actions while not with you as well as when he is.

If you're not a troll, you should at the very least get rid of him immediately and most of all... get him the hell away from your children and forget about being worried about looking in his phone.