So, I'm going to just rant for a little... I know that the typical poster is going to say forget him- he's not worth your time anyway and you'll find someone better- that I'm young and just being stupid. But I really just needed someone/some people to talk to right now...
You see, I'm a god damn idiot- probably the biggest idiot on this forum. So, who am I to ever give someone advice? Nothing's ever worked out for me, so you should probably just do the opposite of whatever I post... And to show you what an idiot I am, let's take a look at tonight, shall we? The man that I've mentioned quite a lot on here was born today, exactly twenty one years ago. While things actually improved between us (I posted once asking for advice.), and we admitted we missed each other...he's been going out with another guy on dates behind my back. Yes, I get the way it works; we're both single, so he's free to do whatever he wants. Though we were talking, he's his own person with his own free will. But at the same time, I can't say I'm particularly happy... I was going to surprise him for his birthday with a poem I wrote and worked really hard on editing to get it just right because I love him more than anything... In the end, he didn't read it (Never answered me whether he wanted to or not.), and he made me aware of this other guy by making his relationship official on Facebook. Yes, friends, he gave me a gift too. He only answered me when I confronted him about his new boyfriend, which I know I'm a prick for doing because it's his birthday, and he apologized and told me he did care all along- it wasn't a lie. He also said he didn't make me wait for him...though I believed he wanted me so I waited like the fool I am while he got a better car and his finances in order... After he told me that, everything was as it should be-- like nothing ever happened. Though I feel like the lone survivor of an airline crash, I respect that he's happy. In the end, that's all that counts.
But let me tell you about love; love is a bully, sometimes. It will make you feel what you never have before- bend you till you're doing things you thought you'd never simply because you're inspired and challenged. Yet, in the end, if it betrays you, it's an unread poem and a rainbow birthday cake.
If anyone has any advice or similar experiences to share or just feel like mocking my post here, I welcome you to comment. Or even if you just want to debate ideas about love/how people suck/whatever you want.
Honestly, I could really use someone to talk to right now, even if they're just a troll....