kind of confused..?Move on or give space

[Gamil]

Okay there is this girl I've been dating since I was 14 I'm 20 now and we have been on a rocky road through our relationship but we stuck through it and toughen this out and had a happy healthy relationship. Last valentine day I have her a promise ring and bears candy all and all that. July passes by we brake up and we didn't talk talk to 2 days and before then we talked everyday since we started dating. So after the 2days passed she texted me stating that she misses me she can't see herself without me so we started dating again like nothing even happen so November comes and everything changed. The first couple of days were fine we were going on dates hanging out all that good stuff. During that period she would get off work come to my house around 1030 pm stay until 1 or 2 am then should go to school I'm then morning at 8 then leave to come to my house at 930 or 10 stay until 12 go to class and repeat the cycle for about 4-5 months. Then everything just stopped around thanksgiving she told me happy thanksgiving thru text and have a good one. A day later her grandmother dies and has to leave the country for a week but I got kind of upset because she didn't tell me and I had to find out via twitter and i texted her and asked her why it kind of got out of hand and lead to a small argument a week later she returns and doesn't tell me and I texted her on and off but just small talk merry Christmas and have a good day I asked her if she wanted a Christmas gift but she rejected it! Then New Years come around and I texted her again asking to hang out no respond...called her no answer or call back. So that Friday I got to her house to talk and she answered the door surprised it was me I talked to her asking what's wrong she's not replying she's acting very cold and seeming to ignore me then she said she moved on and not in love with me anymore and said she has a new bf!!the crushed my heart I got up and left then that Monday comes around I go by her job and talk to her again and of course it lead to no where expect the fact that her new bf works with her! And she is texting her while we were talking so he keeps calling her to ask to handle it so he comes out with a box of chicken in his hand and tells her he doesn't have time for this and leaves to go home and she gets and her car to leave too. So later that night I called her because i was snooping thru her Facebook messages and he was flirting with him since the 15th of December so I confronted her about she's telling me that I'm so noisy and immature that she's dead to my eyes.that Friday I came to her house to give her roses cards candy and flowers and a couple of notes but she wouldn't come out and I had to give it to her brother I called her like 5 times to ask why didn't she come out and she was posting on twitter stating that leave me alone and she hates me she doesn't have any feelings for me Another week later my friend said she saw her at work and asked her how we are doing and she said we are working on it and again I confronted her about it and she was with him in saying that the stuff I gave her didn't mean shit she threw it away and that she burnt everything i ever gave her. Then a week in a half later i called her for the last time she told me she feel in love with this guy were not getting back together the way you are acting we can never befriends that i don't have the same feelings like I did and just woke up and didn't love me anymore but she did confuse that she didn't throw away any of the stuff she still have the flowers and that the stuff I gave her was nice. Then a week and a half later im at work I wrote down all my feelings for her and that night she pulls up and of course I gave it to her and she just looked at me and didn't say anything but I looked in her eyes and it seems like she was very depressed and sad and she said she had to go. Exactly a week later on the 30th of Jan. I'm leaving my job and I see her car in the rear view mirror speeding up the street I haven't seen or talked to her ever since that's been a few weeks ago. I got kind of got closure but no reason why she left but when we were on the phone I was trying to leave but she wouldn't let me because she said I sounded bet suicidal and texted my mom to come check on me. I recently found out that I should leave her alone and let her do her own thing. And now Im not getting on twitter Instagram or Facebook but I keep checking on her and all her tweets are about how happy she is how different and better this is and he means everything to her. What I'm asking is should I just give up altogether or should I try to give her space and apply the no contact rule but Im also doing it to help to find myself

[HeartIsAching]

Paragraphs, please.

[bearz]

Holy batman wall of text.

You should have given up a long time ago, or at least given her some space for a while. You definitely pressured her a lot and I'm sure she didn't like that at all. I mean you pretty much stalked her by going through her Facebook messages, driving to her house, etc. I'm not surprised she pushed you away. I can understand that you still have feelings for her and want things to work out, but it is not worth your or her time since you both don't seem to be mature enough for an actual relationship.

[Gamil]

I understand I did but I mean she went on my FB millions of times to see if I was "cheating" on her and my email but I understand I made a mistake..I talked to a couple of my friends about she is putting up a 'fake' but I can see her doing that but I can't at the same time

[bearz]

If you both go through each other's private messages there is no trust and therefore, no basis for a relationship.

[Gamil]

That is very true thats the only time I did that just to know what was going on.I feel like she's in a rebound relationship now but idk who knows