Hello, I'll start by introducing myself. My name is Zara and I live in Belgium. I am 19 years old and I am a student. My best friend is my neighbor and I think I've know her since I was about 8 years old. She is two years younger then me and she is tour typical girl and I am a bit of a tomboy. I've always seen her as my baby-sister but lately those feelings have changed. When we were younger there were vacations I was with her from 1pm till 10 pm 7 days a week for 2 moths in a row. So it's safe the say that we have a very strong friendship. This year she is graduating from high school and so her parents are giving her more freedom. So this vacation we are going for 10 days to Greece. Till now I've been able to control my feeling. I don't see Greece changing that, because it's only for ten days and we will be traveling in a group. However last week she has asked me to live together in college. I love spending time with her, and we always have a good time. She's able to make me forget my troubles. So off course I am going to say yes. I just don't know if I will be able to control my feelings. And I wonder if any of you have some ideas that could help me.
Some information that could be important: She doesn't know about my feelings, or that I like girls (But then again neither did I). I don't think she will be so surprised that I like girls because I am tomboy. If she passes every year, she will be studying 5 years. If I pass every year (from now on) I will still have to do 6 years (I know, poor me). So we will be living together for 5 years. Her parents love the idea of us being roommates, because they think I have a good influence on her. So the moving in together isn't just a bold idea and is probably going to happen. And one last thing lately she has the tendency to end all her text messages with x, which is really annoying because it makes it harder to forget my true feelings about her.
And that is my story, thank you for taking the time to read this. And hopefully you'll have some advice for me!