I've been seeing and dating my friend for almost a yr. For the longest time I was chasing him. We tried making it official but honestly he wasn't ready at the time or was simply afraid of commitment so it didn't last too long. It was complicating and in the end left me hurt. Thankfully we were able to move past from it and continued to be good friends, bestfriends. It was as though nothing ever happened and we continued our same routine except no title attached. We were exclusive and content with the way things were.
To make it short, after all the months and months of mixed emotions and trying to understand him, Im scared to admit but I think i have finally moved on. I'm not seeing or dating anymore. Ive just simply emotionally detache and numb my feelings for him. After the break up, I told myself everyday and drilled it.into my head to believe that we were simply just good friends and there would be no potential of a real relver. I love him and care about him. Things are great the way they are except lately I've been having a lingering conscious that its time to let him go. Should I give up or am I giving up too easily. He's a great guy.
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05-03-13, 12:57 AM #1
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how do you know when enough is enough?
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05-03-13, 01:05 AM #2
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I figured it was better to love than love. At least I knew I gave myself whole hearted and tried. In just not in love anymore.
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05-03-13, 01:07 AM #3
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"he wasn't ready" ?? "afraid of commitment" ??
That is a BS excuse^^^-he just didn't want commitment with you. That just means hes not that into you. Sorry to be blunt. He could give the next girl his heart on a plate without any fear.
Yes let him go and stop hoping. Forget him and meet someone who is willing to give you what you want
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05-03-13, 01:18 AM #4
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I already gave up hope. Now it's a matter of breaking it down to him.
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05-03-13, 01:21 AM #5
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Just stop spending time with him. You need distance and space to get over him
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05-03-13, 06:08 AM #6
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Thank you Michelle. You are right. Often times I try to be too understanding and neglect to identify the real problem.
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05-03-13, 06:14 AM #7
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the more time uou waste on him-the more you are jeopardizing the chance of meeting someone truly special. put yourself first
