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    Girlfriend need some privacy and she is tired?

    My Girlfriend and I have been together for 5 years but we have several quarrels throughout the years.
    She have deleted me from Facebook and forbid me to follow her.
    However, i don't like the feeling that some times she is hiding things from me.
    So i always use my way to find what she posted etc.
    I honest to her because I don't wish this type of things would continue.
    But she got mad and wanted to break because she say I always invade her privacy.
    She says she want to break up and so I kept messaging her.
    She say she is very tired...and insist to break.
    But we both agree to cool down for 2 weeks.

    What should I do...

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    Let's start from the beginning. Why were you invading her privacy? Was she behaving in an untrustworthy manner?

    What type of things did you quarrel about?
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

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    she wanted to go on a oversea with someone.
    when I hint her that I know she will be going. she tried to change topic.
    When I exposed her then she still refuse to tell me and told me that she dun have to tell anybody.
    That's her privacy, she said.
    I was mad that she isn't honest with me but she was mad that I "stalked" her facebook because she deleted me.
    Last edited by wxyz; 06-03-13 at 03:38 PM.

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    She's tired of the relationship and is very likely interested in someone else. You should have a serious talk about whether you both want to continue the relationship or not.

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    i wanted to talk to her but she refuse to...
    we only agreed to cool down for 2 weeks...

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    She doesnt want to be with you anymore

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    She is tired and wants to go to bed... with that guy she will be traveling with. She wants privacy so she can cheat with this guy for a while and decide if it's time to break up with you.
    Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.

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    Quote Originally Posted by surfhb2 View Post
    She doesnt want to be with you anymore
    LOL. Sorry OP, but that was very to the point. And unfortunately for you, right. Just move on.

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