I've noticed that this happens to people a lot.
So your alone and single, fed up with waiting to find the right one and then this amazing person bounces into your life and everything is so perfect and beautiful and romantic. You start planning weddings and babies and thinking you'll grow old together and everything will be wonderful.........
Fast forward 2, 3, 4 or 5 years and people start wondering "is the grass greener", "could I be happier with someone else", "is there someone better out there for me"..
Why does this happen? Any theories? I mean its understandable if you have lots of issues. If you argue all the time and break up every week or if sex is bad or infrequent or if you have nothing in common, never have anything to talk about and are just bored..
BUT it happens to people who are compatible sexually, intellectually, emotionally. Some people break up for no reason at all. Why?
Is it insecurity? Nobody is ever good enough? Unrealistic expectations? Not knowing what love should be like? Thinking its supposed to be something else? Getting confused between infatuation and love? Taking the easy way out??
Ive also noticed that many people end a relationship only to deeply regret it weeks or months later but the damage and hurt has already been done and its very hard to go back or to be taken back..
And what about people who dump a long term partner for someone else? That is just plain wrong. Jumping from one person to the next without a break in between. Why do people do that? Again is it insecurity? Emotional immaturity? Fear of being alone?