How To Get Your Ex Back !!

[cris751]

How To Get Your Ex Back Into Wanting You

Breaking up with an ex isn’t a good thing, fortunately for you there are ways that you can get your ex to want you again in her life, especially if you believe that your break up was the wrong decision| for both of you to make. You don’t need to live a life of regret, more so if there is a way {that you can actually correct that wrong decision of yours.
Here are some of the things that you can truly do if you want to get your ex back into wanting you.

Look Good
Make sure that you take the time to make some improvements in the best way you look. One sure way you could get your ex to need you again is to simply try and make your look better than the way that you normally look. This you will make aesthetically interesting to your ex, and will help increase your chances of your ex wanting you back. Nobody wants to be with someone who doesn’t know how to care of themselves, for this is an indication of how that person would take care of them in return.

Be Positive
A method that you would be able to improve your attraction to your ex and get her to want you again is to simply keep a positive outlook. If you keep a positive attitude, this will actually reflect on how you carry yourself, and in turn, will reflect on how you will take care and interact with others. The more positive you are, the more|extra positive the people*s reaction would be towards you, hence, improving your chances of getting your ex to need you back.

Use Your History
Being together in a relationship before does pose a lot of advantages for you, so make sure that you use that. You will have some information of what your ex might like, such as what type of guy she is attracted to, or what her favorite color is or what her favorite food is. These information will help give you the edge since you already know what she likes, so make sure that you use these to get her to notice you and feel that lost attraction for you once again.

Be A Reminder Of The Good Times
In your past relationship, there must be an aspect of it that your ex really loves. It could be a particular event, or even a trait that you might have that she just finds irresistible or appealing. Try to replicate that, or emulate that in a way that it can help remind her of how happy you were, and what she used to like about you. This will also show her that you care about what she thought, and that you value her opinion as evidenced by your attempts to remind her of your past.
These are just some of the ways that you can use to help make your ex want you back. Just make sure to add your private flair to make your attempts more authentic and more personal.

[brokenhearted91]

If only this were true...

[basilandthyme]

Rubbish. My ex husband did all of that and it didn't work on me.

[Rowen]

To be honest, this is a steaming pile of bull. And why should you change your look just to suit the desires of someone else?

Instead of trying to be something you're clearly not, why don't you try to find someone who respects and likes you just how you are?

[Boisdevie]

Breaking up with an ex isn’t a good thing

It is if they annoy the crap out of you.

[Filip Pejsa]

I´ve also done everything and yet living a life of regret 25 yrs., and even double the last 4 yrs. Girls do not fogive:-(

[ashley89]

most of the time when someone ends a relationship it is over for good. of course there are instances where it works out and people get back together, but not usually. one person decided to end it for a reason and that is it. there is no true way to "win" someone back if they've made up their mind that they don't want to be with you. and why would you want to chase after someone who decided they didn't want you in their life anymore?

[basilandthyme]

To be honest, this is a steaming pile of bull. And why should you change your look just to suit the desires of someone else?

Instead of trying to be something you're clearly not, why don't you try to find someone who respects and likes you just how you are?

I think this advice is written for a person who's relationship has failed because the person crashed and burned after that initial 6 month phase when you're out to impress. This is aimed at someone who has stopped caring about their presentation, someone who stopped making an effort to remember the little things the partner likes etc etc.

However, this advice wouldn't make me want a person back. Changing after I'd finally broken up with them would be too little too late.

[basilandthyme]

It is if they annoy the crap out of you.

Can't agree with you more. Breaking up with an ex can be very liberating.

[Rowen]

Can't agree with you more. Breaking up with an ex can be very liberating.

^ Agreed. That's how it was with my first two boyfriends. I actually went outside onto my front porch after dumping the second and yelled, "FREEDOM!" really loudly. lol

It's true what you suggested about the advice being directed. More or less, I would hope, though, that no one would choose to follow this.

[shesjustnotin2u]

yeaaa, once ive accepted that a relationship was over, IT'S OVER! ive tried going back to make it work but honestly, it will never be the same.