Love her with all my heart

[JazzSam]

Ok, so i've been with this girl for the last 9 months, we've been separated before, for like 3 weeks or so, after she broke up with me stating that i never say i love her in person but rather use messages to do so, i explained the stuation to her and that i trully loved her right after the separation but she wouldn't change her mind at that time, later on she started to miss me and send me messages and calling me just to chat, i have to mention that during the period that we were separated i only spoke to her when she wanted to and when i saw her i played it cool and let her do all the work, and show her that my life doesn't stop with the loss of her and that she only sweetens my life, not defines it. And now, after 9 months she broke up with me again saying that she is a burden to me, i explained to her that this wasn't the case and kissed her, and she continued to act like nothng was wrong for like 3 days during which everytime i said something cute she cried and said to me that i was the best boyfriend in the world and stuff like that. After 3 days, we met, i kissed her and right after that she said that she still believes that she is a burden so i said to her that i also want to break up and we both went on our separat ways. The next day, she came to a place where she knew i would be acting all cool and stuff, we talked we laughed and then i kissed her and tried to talk her out of it but the only thing i got her doing was cryin everytime i said something heart warming. The last thing she said to me was to have faith in her because this is the best thing for me and that she will try to stay out of my sight for a period because she knows that if i try to kiss her she will let me do so. Is there anything else i can do to prove to her that she's not a burden? but exactly the opposite, that she's the only thing that helps me go forward when i have problems? And eventually get her back?

[searock]

She isn't in love with you, that's why she is sad whenever you say something sweet to her: she feels guilty for not being in love with you. She also feels "responsible" for you, that's why she has trouble breaking up with you for good and going no contact, she knows that it would hurt you and she can't find the strength to do it. You two are probably young and inexperienced, but you both need to learn that this is just the way things go: sometimes, relationships don't work out, and you need to let go. Let her go, she deserves to be with someone she loves as much as he loves her, and you deserve to be with someone who loves you as much as you love her.