Well, it happened to me

[Kromat83]

This is what she wrote to me

" Hi

I'm sorry I didn't respond to you earlier.

I had to think about it just a little longer to give you my honest answer.

And generally, I don't think this relationship can still exist.
I will never move to Canada and start my life over there.

You have to keep going, and find somebody who will be perfect for you.
I know you can make it. You are different person now and can easilly meet somebody.

I don't want, to confuse you any longer, about us.

I wrote what I really felt and think at this moment."

I guess she is still not ready for change, and just lives for the moment.

I am rather shocked how she treated me over this month, and
finally know where we stand, i hope she doesn't regret it later.

P.S. i was expecting it, so i am really not crying, but have answers.

[vashti]

Don't know the whole story, but I gather she lives in a different country, in which case I believe she is right to call this off. Young people need attention and affection, which is hard to do across an ocean.

Do your grieving, and then find a nice, local girl.

[ashley89]

sorry Kromat, at least you learned from this experience and can say you enjoyed being with her while it lasted.

[pcmaster]

I think she was sexually ready and you was someone who look like an easy catch.

Shes much younger - that means she not just fell in love faster but fell out of it faster too. Everything is much simplier when you are young.(She looks like a slut in picture anyway)

However at least theres only good memories and you didnt waste the time with her. That means you are free and if you open your eyes than maybe there is someone who always was around but you didnt notice before. And changes you made in life - you did them for yourself and now they gona work for your advantage with other girls.

Good that you are not crying like a bitch when you feel the pain because it helps only first few days but after sucks you deeper just like drugs or alcohol(makes your nervous system weaker).

In your place I would start interact with other girls straight away or at least start chat up with them on dating sites. Enyoj your freedom there is even better girls out there.

If you sometimes feel down then lots of food high in protein helps with mood.

Smile because you deserve to !

[michelle23]

Sorry Kromat. Just be happy you had this experience. You have more confidence now and you will be ready to meet someone special soon

[Kromat83]

It was infatuation, and guess i didn't experience this sort of love before,
that i thought with my emotions more instead of being realistic.

You guys were right all along, since you've gone through this sort of thing,
and whatever i said, it didn't get through to her, so i guess i saw this coming.

I am just glad, i have some closure, and can move on.

My school starts next week, and can devote more energy towards that,
as she said, she didn't like using Skype anyways, that is why she avoided
me the last few days and wanted more time to think about it,
and only wanted to talk when she's alone, away from her parents.

Like you people are saying, i will find someone that really appreciates
what i have to offer her, and share my life with that special person.

P.S. I am not crying, as i need to be a strong person, and succeed in life.

[pcmaster]

Sorry Kromat. Just be happy you had this experience. You have more confidence now and you will be ready to meet someone special soon

Yeah, Michelle actually like you and always wanted to live in Canada.

[Kromat83]

Don't know the whole story, but I gather she lives in a different country, in which case I believe she is right to call this off. Young people need attention and affection, which is hard to do across an ocean.

Do your grieving, and then find a nice, local girl.

Like i mentioned, it was infatuation on my part, since it was something new for me,
and she is more of a person that has to have someone in her real life, to make something work.

I am not surprised that the distance killed it, as there wasn't any intimacy anymore, and communication was pretty non-existent this month.

I can't stay mad at her, since she decided what was right for her, so i need to respect that and move on.

Yeah, Michelle actually like you and always wanted to live in Canada.

Haha, that is hilarious ... but i need to find myself a Canadian woman
now, and not someone that has to leave shortly after.

I will spend focusing on myself this year, and if something happens by accident,
i don't know, i might pursue it, but they can't be from another country,
as i don't want the same thing to happen like before, where it is for the moment.

Here's to success in my career and to have a wonderful and lustrous life

[Rowen]

I'm sorry that this had to happen to you, Kromat. But you definitely have the right mentality to focus on yourself and respecting her wishes. Honestly, I wish more guys were as noble as you in that sense.

Just keep telling yourself that this is just a bend in the road to finding your true love. One day, you're going to make a Canadian woman very happy. Don't stop believing that you'll find the love of your life.

If you ever need to talk to someone, though, you can PM me if you'd like.
Best of luck.

[Cerby]

Hey, as long as you come out ahead. In your very first post we explained why this probably wouldn't work, but at the same time, you can only learn the lesson yourself. Now you have some experience, and idea of what you're looking for, and you can go out and find it. There are 3.2 billion women in the world, you just need to find the one that makes you happy...and lives close enough that you can reap ALL the benefits of a relationship from.

[Kromat83]

Hey, as long as you come out ahead. In your very first post we explained why this probably wouldn't work, but at the same time, you can only learn the lesson yourself. Now you have some experience, and idea of what you're looking for, and you can go out and find it. There are 3.2 billion women in the world, you just need to find the one that makes you happy...and lives close enough that you can reap ALL the benefits of a relationship from.

i know, sometimes my emotions get the best of me, and
you can't keep a good thing going, if it's so far away later.

Sometimes you need to fall on your face, to get up again later.

I will remember this experience, and use it with someone that is dear to my
heart in the future, and do think that things happen in our life for a reason.

I was meant to meet this person, so i could improve myself, and see what i am capable of.

I hope the best for her, because she thinks of me as great person, that knows what he wants.

Where ever my life will take me, i am glad to have spent
the time, and there will be others that will make me happy,
with which i can share my feelings towards them.

My path is here in Canada, may the girl i seek, meet me one day.

[lamobatsman]

sorry can u post ur story or a link to it. cheers