What makes the perfect girlfriend/relationship?

[sweetmama83]

Ok lads,
I would love to know from a male point of view what is a perfect girlfriend in your eyes (not just talking about looks). how should she act, personality, react with your friends/family, hobbies, points of view etc.
Would be interesting to know
xx

[michelle23]

why do you wana no? Are u planning to change who you are? Why dont you just be yourself until you meet someone who loves you for who you are. Theres no such thing as a perfect relationship or perfect girlfriend/boyfriend unless you get a robot that you can program to be "perfect".

Love is about accepting someones flaws and loving all the good things about them. Focusing on the important things and not allowing little stupid things bother you.

[sweetmama83]

i just want to know. im not changing anything about myself its just a general interest x

[michelle23]

Everyones definition of perfection is different. Id say though in general-the important things are

1/. love
2/. Trust
3/. Respect
4/. Sex
5/. Communication
6/. Laughter and fun
7/. Emotional connection

[FlaCooln]

Personality:

A bit sarcasitc, witty, good sense of humor. Honest, confident, patient, outgoing, open/good communicator, emotionally available and able to express her feelings, and adventureous. Intelligent/Educated (both book smarts and common sense). She should act like a lady, dress well and not be afraid to be sexy when we go out. I love when my woman looks good and people know it, as I am not the jealous type. She needs to be comfortable in a business suit, cocktail dress, or just my tshirt and nothing else.

Hobbies: Foodie, dancing, sports (or at least respect the fact that I love sports)

She has to do the little things like a massage, make me meal (even if it tastes bad, it is about the effort and I will eat it and be thankful). Love to come home and my GF is naked or wanting to take me into the shower. Love a woman that can just be comfortable enough with her body to walk around naked. Sexually she needs to be spontaneous and have a good sex drive because once or twice a week is not enough for me. She needs to give a BJ once and awhile and I shouldn't have to ask and for god sake show enthusiasm when doing it.

When it comes to friends and family she nees to understand they are important and take time to get to know them. I also like a woman to be opinionated and strong and not just agree with everything I say as I enjoy being challenged and pushed. She must have some rythm and be able to dance and dance in public. She must be able to go to a party or business function with me and not just cling to me the whole time, rather she should be comfortable enough to mingle a bit w/o me.

Physically:

Not too pale, curvy, medium to long hair, 5-3 to 5-10. Must have an ass (flat bottom girls don't excite me). Pretty face and nice nose (dislike big noses). She must take care of her body and exercise, but not be afraid to eat.

[sweetmama83]

ha, FlaCooln, thats a good answer. well thats pretty much me all over and yet i still get dumped by the love of my life! he goes from being married to a boring, jealous, money grabbing bunny boiler (sex with lights off, once a month thing!) to me and its still not good enough. you men are complicated! lol

[Love'sReject]

Whether she's having her monthly visitor or not, it's important that she don't get too goddamn bitchy.

[FlaCooln]

ha, FlaCooln, thats a good answer. well thats pretty much me all over and yet i still get dumped by the love of my life! he goes from being married to a boring, jealous, money grabbing bunny boiler (sex with lights off, once a month thing!) to me and its still not good enough. you men are complicated! lol

LOL. Sounds a bit like my ex. After 5 years she became lazy, boring, and I was lucky to have sex once a week. I felt like the sex was rationed and so scheduled. I could never just be spontaneous with her, she was always like later/tonight when we go to bed. Sex should be fun and in the moment when you feel it, not always planned for later. And it was not like we had kids or anything, both young and healthy...so I figured if she was this boring in her late 20s, her sex drive at 40 would be nonexistent.

Maybe I am just a sexual person, but seeing a woman running around my house, whom I loved at the time, always made me horny. We could be cleaning the house and I would see her bend over and that was it...I would want to drop everything and make love.

[bearz]

you men are complicated! lol

And you women are twice as bad.

The qualities I am looking for in a woman are slightly different from FlaCooln's, but still very similar. As far as physical appearance is concerned, she needs to take care of herself, but I also don't want some barbie doll who goes to a beauty salon every week and spends half of her pay check on beauty products. She needs to be comfortable in her own skin, be able to dress up when it's appropriate but also not be afraid to wear some more casual clothes, I got a sweet spot for pj pants and a sweater for example. She should be smaller than myself and not be too skinny, I definitely like curvy.

When it comes to her character she should have a good sense of humor and sarcasm, I prefer to give people a hard time and she definitely needs to be able to handle that and even return the favor. Being smart, having a decent education, and being a grown-up in general are other things I am looking for. She needs to have her own interests and hobbies, be able to do things on her own, and be capable of giving me my space and respect my interests and hobbies. She doesn't necessarily have to be a party girl but I definitely wouldn't mind someone who is spontaneous and does like to go out every once in a while.

I love food, I love eating. She doesn't necessarily need to be a great cook, but it would be nice if she would at least enjoy trying to cook something together. I like to go out to eat, especially on weekends, and she can't be too picky about what she likes to eat.

[FlaCooln]

Well bearz I could just add your stuff to my list as well, as that all sounds good me.

[michelle23]

I love my pjs when chillaxing at home but also love getting dolled up and going out.. And my bf clothes are really comfy so they work as an alternative to pjs everything that you both described sounds very like me except I have pale skin and I don't think Id enjoy formal dancing but random dancing works haha!

[smackie9]

On a more generic scale, men like a woman that is supportive, that "gets" them, that can change her looks, able to bring new interests/hobbies to the relationship, and doesn't complain about porn.

[pcmaster]

My perfect girl would be simple in looks and personality. Basicaly open minded girl who says what she thinks are easly to understand. Just natural beauty from inside and outside.

She would have a little love, a lot of understanding and patience. She would hate porn, video games, but enjoy outdoors and sports with me.

[Love'sReject]

On a more generic scale, men like a woman that is supportive, that "gets" them, that can change her looks, able to bring new interests/hobbies to the relationship, and doesn't complain about porn.

Bingo!

Further, she's GOT to be horny, all the time. Maybe that's more of a fantasy, though....where she brings a similarly hot friend for a threesome in mid-air after leaping out of the plane on a skydiving/threesome trip and then when we land, do it again in a field nearby then go to the nearest beach and do it again there....


Sorry, got carried away. But yeah, physical intimacy all the time is a must.

[bearz]

Might be easier if you just get two blowup dolls for now.