jellousy

[nick522]

hi all,its a long one..last year me and wife been mariiied 2 years together 20! we fight like most peole and its good as well.last december whilest i was on the toilet of all places i wanted to look up somthing (hemoriods) of all things.and saw my wifes phone on the side,she had gone to bed and left her phone there for the radio on it in morning.my phone at the time did not have internet...i never have been a snooper so when i typed in how to treat hems the surch bar flashed previous serches no big deal exept it said .how to have phone sex on a first date,then when i went looking at this point i was excited thinking maybee its for us i found.renting flats in london prices ect and .shold i kiss my work collige......as you can imagine crash!!!!!!!! i confrunted her and she explaned it because of the hudge fights ect and titalation was the reason....anyway fast forward to now and i keep feeling these massive jelious urges! its a pysical feeling of butterflieys and odd almost play like films were she is chetting on me. last night i blew up and said i wasnt happy about her going away(she has to go away somtimes for work)with a younger work mate for 2 nights....this would never have botherd me befour..she is highly intelligent and a great womman. last night and this morning i created a fantasy woman who i said liked me.this was just to get a reaction.....not a thing.i dont believe she is cheating on me but the rows we are having are all me getting jelious..even what she wears to work......anyway it was nice to get of chest at least.....thanks...

[Wakeup]

She explained away all her inappropriate actions by saying she did it because you two fight? Have you stopped fighting? Because if you haven't then she's probably still seeking out extra curricular "titillations" or even more. The butterflies in your stomach is your gut telling you that she's full of chit and that she's likely already or is now working towards an affair with her "younger co-worker."

I'm not sure how you can trust a person who has been indulging in untrustworthy behaviour. I guess it's up to you to talk to her about what your instincts are trying to warn you about and for her to show you that she can be trusted so's that you can believe her.

Good luck.