After spending 16 yrs with a paraplegic (can't feel his penis hence cannot orgasm, also sex can only be me on top). I have an incredibly high sex drive, however for 16 yrs have had a v limited sex life. I feel an intense need to get sex elsewhere, the thought of all the positions I'm missing out on & actually seeing a man come drive me crazy. I get a hell of a lot of male attention so the frustration is made so much harder. Would it be so wrong to get what I so desperately need elsewhere?