Advice on Dating a Stripper

[palagi9]

Hi, I'm new to all this, so kind of need some help/advice.

So, I went to a Strip Club last night and went to the VIP with a Stripper, we concluded our business, and I went back to the main floor. Later on that night she comes back to me and says hi, has a bit of a chat, and asks me for my number (i didn't ask, nor was I trying to get it). I give it to her, and she immediately texts me so I have her number.

Then, later the same night, after the club is closed, she sends me a Text Message saying it was nice to meet me, to which I reply roughly with a thanks and a likewise... then she responds asking me if I want to meet up today or tomorrow.

The question is, should I respond or not? I know on a base level, this is a lot of guys' dreams, but I know the risks and stigma that can surround these situations outside the strip club (they could be crazy), and I know sometimes this is a way for them to expand their customer base, so I wanna know if you guys think the reward is worth the risk. It's just a bit weird to me that I didn't try at all, and she's being doing all the work.

[smackie9]

Ask yourself:

Would you be comfortable having a GF grinding strange guys nightly?

Would you feel proud to introduce her to your family, friends and co-workers?

Are you just interested in just a casual relationship? or a serious one?

If things did get serious would you make her quit her job and support her, maybe help her with an education?

Do you feel this is kinda sketchy?

[michelle23]

What happens in the VIP room outa curiousity?

[smackie9]

Follow your guy feeling on this.....if it doesn't feel right then it's not.

[smackie9]

What happens in the VIP room outa curiousity?

Seriously you don't know?

[smackie9]

Lets just say the guy goes in there ready with a condom on.....and depends on how much money gets thrown down.

[dem862]

What happens in the VIP room, stays in the VIP room. I have known some strippers to be pretty aggressive with their tactics. But it is their job and they are generally all about the money. Don't expect a long term relationship out of this. You might get some companionship outside of the club, but she is a working girl and time is money.

[michelle23]

Well according to some people on here "theres no touching" buti didnt believe that. So stripper is just a nice word for a prostitute then. Some men are obviously quite desperate. Just saying..

[smackie9]

My GF's daughter was a stripper and she has told me somethings that go on in the clubs. There are guys that will slap on a condom and get a hand job through the pants, or vaginally rubbed, kissing, more contact till the guy cums. Some clubs will turn a blind eye and things will go further depending on the girl.

Just to let the guys know there are cameras everywhere in these clubs including the VIP room for the girls safety (my husband has installed security cameras in these clubs ), so there is a steroid monkey or two watching what is going on, so it ain't that private.....you are being watched.

[Starnique]

Im not really sure about this one. She could really like you. Then again, Im a dancer and I have a few favorites. They may feel a certain way about me but I keep personal life very seperate and I dont care about them.

Now you do have the VIP and a lot goes on in there. Idk about the club you was at but where I work chicks be eating each other out and all so you need to learn what type of stripper she is. The more money she has the more she does. I get good money because I now how to work a pole real good...seriously. I have a pole in my bedroom and I practiced a lot. I also travel, maybe to Atlanta, Philly, Charlotte, NC, Chicago, Vegas, me and a couple of other chicks but I consider myself to be top knotch. I even teach women, married women. Any women. They will have parties and I will go and teach them. My point is its all about the money with me although I dont screw for money. My personal life is very seperate. I wont even speak to a guy if I see him outside the club. They will call my name but thats not my name outside the club so I dont answer. You have strippers that live that lifestyle 24/7, all day evey day and their lost in it, make sure shes not one of those.

Find out what she is about. With a stripper, you should be able to tell relatively quickly.

[smackie9]

Well according to some people on here "theres no touching" buti didnt believe that. So stripper is just a nice word for a prostitute then. Some men are obviously quite desperate. Just saying..

There is a no touching policy in the main area. My husband was at a stag in one of the strip clubs in Vancouver. A waitress jumped up on a table and started stripping in front of them, his buddy reached up and BAM! he was tossed out on his head. It all depends on the club and the girls that are working there. Not all clubs promote prostitution Michelle. Some clubs don't even serve alcohol.

[michelle23]

Of course there being watched lol. The owners of these clubs need protection or dirt that they can use against any politicians, police etc so they can get away with their iligitimate dealings. They all have bent coppers etc on their payroll.

And they will use their photographic evidence to blackmail people if they need to.

I dont understand y people wud even wana go there to be honest. Genuinly think the cusyomers have issues.

[pcmaster]

Strip club is a very good place for a first date. When all that fresh meat is moving around but you are looking only in your girls eyes... She will be in awe.

[smackie9]

Here in the lower mainland the strip clubs are slowly disappearing, they just closed down The Drake to make way for new condos. There hasn't been male strippers for the ladies in over a decade. There used to be strippers at every hotel bar 25 years ago.....I used to go with my male friends once in awhile when I was in college between classes....but that's when a pint of beer was 95 cents lol. The clubs are disappearing because of the internet. Internet porn is free, the web cam experience is legal, you can drink quite cheaply at home, don't have to worry about taking a cab and you can bang your old lady if she is home.

[smackie9]

Strip club is a very good place for a first date. When all that fresh meat is moving around but you are looking only in your girls eyes... She will be in awe.

LOL! ya right.