What are they trying to tell me

[R0aDRuNN3R5]

I say they because I notice this with almost every girl I meet,
I'll give a little history of me first:
-Been told I'm good looking, dress well, I have an athletic fit body, girls always tell me I smell good, laugh and talk a lot with me, glance at me from across the room
-Back then I was shy and the new me hasn't seen much experience being my job
-Can be quiet but once I get started I can talk forever

When I used to be shy, I would notice body signals from women but would never act on them (for example me and this girl who had a huge crush on me were cuddling and I saw her friend in the room next door text her to start kissing me and she replied she didn't want to rush it, I just acted like I didn't see it when I felt I could of at least talked to her about it)

Whenever I am at parties or with a group I'll always have everyone laughing the girls will get playful and touchy, I always see them glacing at me when "i'm not noticing' hug me tight when we leave and excited when they see me the next time.
But I can never get to the intimate part. Like I said I used to be shy so they new me hasn't got to experiment yet but ladies...when I notice a girl getting all friendly,playful with me at a party or something what is the next step I should take to get some one on one time with her?

[Ann S]

Is your goal sex? You aren't clear. If so, start with kissing and work your way down! Ann

[R0aDRuNN3R5]

Is your goal sex? You aren't clear. If so, start with kissing and work your way down! Ann

I guess thinking it through my head I am unclear, but I would have to say it would be sex or anything related to it, with my job a relationship back at home-home just can't work out.
And that's what always confused me, start with kissing, wait for the right moment, when would that be I figure I try to get her alone at a party and just go for it

[Ann S]

A party? Well, if it's just for sex, then lead her to the bedroom and see what happens. But there's something else you're not saying. What do you mean, "home just can't work out?" Why not? Ann

[BackUpOrGetStng]

You have to start acting on those signals that you pick up on...

[R0aDRuNN3R5]

A party? Well, if it's just for sex, then lead her to the bedroom and see what happens. But there's something else you're not saying. What do you mean, "home just can't work out?" Why not? Ann

I'm in the military and don't go to my hometown often and I am going to try out for SF and if I make it I will never have anytime for a relationship.
So for now I am just looking to have some fun when I go home on leave.

My problem is over thinking things, I always do good up to the making a move point do I just grab her hand or tell her

[Ann S]

First of all, how do we become friends, here. I'm pretty new.
What is SF? I really understand because I have family in the military.
I'd gently take her hand - not grab it. Some kisses on her hand and then her mouth to see if she's receptive and then you'll have to be the judge. Ann

[R0aDRuNN3R5]

First of all, how do we become friends, here. I'm pretty new.
What is SF? I really understand because I have family in the military.
I'd gently take her hand - not grab it. Some kisses on her hand and then her mouth to see if she's receptive and then you'll have to be the judge. Ann

You have to go to their profile and request them.

Special Forces, to start my home is a 12 hour drive from where I am stationed and I only get leave 0nce or twice a year so I rarely go home and am not good at long distance relationships.
And if I make special forces the odds of me seeing any girl I'm interested in back at home is extremely slim especially since the first 2 years is non stop training.

Thanks, thats what I meant by grab once I feel I see enough signs and the mood is right I gently grab her hand and just walk her away from the party to somewhere we can be alone

[michelle23]

If your only looking for sex-make sure you tell her that before you bang her.

[searock]

If your only looking for sex-make sure you tell her that before you bang her.

This, and also don't film her during sex unless you have her explicit permission (but if you ask for her permission she will most likely not have sex with you since you would be a stranger, so I'd say you abandon the idea of filming her entirely, leave that fantasy to when you'll be in a long term relationship).

[Ann S]

First of all, thank you for your service. Special Forces is NOT easy! You are going to have to plan how you do this by ear. And what if you could potentially like this girl, but you have the idea that you can't be in a relationship because of your job? Then what, you just walk off and forget it? There are many women out there who can really dig a guy and Skype or email on a regular basis. True, this is not ideal but you might want to loosen up your thinking a little, sit back, and see what happens. I'll tell you, MOST women won't do that one night stand just because you are in uniform.

I think you will be a good friend to have, BTW. Ann