What makes a Girl get excited?

[FAlex]

Hello Girls, I'm wondering what makes get excited now a days, Guys get excited easily when they are near the woman they love, though your side is a bit different, I would like to know what makes you excited?.
What signs do you give out when you are excited?.

I'm not talking about the fact what a man should do to get you excited when you are about to have sex, more like a casual excitement.

[Ann S]

Listening to us, gets us excited! It is so rare to have a partner who just listens us without trying to fix any issues. The trying to fix things puts you in a one-up position and the woman in a one-down position: by that I mean that you, oh sage that you are, are trying to solve something for me and the covert message is that you don't think I have the brains to figure it out for myself....So just listen and thank me for sharing with you. If I ask your opinion, ask me what I think my options are FIRST! Listening to me makes me excited to think I really DO have a partner who cares what I think and that goes such a long way.

Another thing that gets us excited is KNOWING that, if I'm being ridiculous, YOU won't put me down, or call me names. That you'll weather the storm and then be there to discuss it and work it out.

I don't know if this answered your question? My response is about that LONG TERM excitement that you establish by being a kind, understanding partner. Ann

[lamobatsman]

Listening to us, gets us excited! It is so rare to have a partner who just listens us without trying to fix any issues. The trying to fix things puts you in a one-up position and the woman in a one-down position: by that I mean that you, oh sage that you are, are trying to solve something for me and the covert message is that you don't think I have the brains to figure it out for myself....So just listen and thank me for sharing with you. If I ask your opinion, ask me what I think my options are FIRST! Listening to me makes me excited to think I really DO have a partner who cares what I think and that goes such a long way.

Another thing that gets us excited is KNOWING that, if I'm being ridiculous, YOU won't put me down, or call me names. That you'll weather the storm and then be there to discuss it and work it out.

I don't know if this answered your question? My response is about that LONG TERM excitement that you establish by being a kind, understanding partner. Ann

guys who do this are friendzoned

[Ann S]

Dear lamobatsman: Really? I always want my lover to be a friend. Always - then there is the sexy part which I didn't address. Couples have to decide what works for them. What is exciting to them. Ann

[FAlex]

Listening to us, gets us excited! It is so rare to have a partner who just listens us without trying to fix any issues. The trying to fix things puts you in a one-up position and the woman in a one-down position: by that I mean that you, oh sage that you are, are trying to solve something for me and the covert message is that you don't think I have the brains to figure it out for myself....So just listen and thank me for sharing with you. If I ask your opinion, ask me what I think my options are FIRST! Listening to me makes me excited to think I really DO have a partner who cares what I think and that goes such a long way.

Another thing that gets us excited is KNOWING that, if I'm being ridiculous, YOU won't put me down, or call me names. That you'll weather the storm and then be there to discuss it and work it out.

I don't know if this answered your question? My response is about that LONG TERM excitement that you establish by being a kind, understanding partner. Ann

Thanks, and now I'm curious about the Sexual Excitement though xD

[Love'sReject]

Girls are excited about money, having it spent on them, receiving compliments and ditching good guys for jackasses. There ya go!

[fearoflove]

Money. Lots of money! That makes chicks very excited.

[FAlex]

-.-', serious answers plz. Not all girls are bitches.

[Ann S]

A kiss on the back of the neck while on an outing, holding hands, kissing an ear lobe, cheek, hand, etc. Do you really not know these things? Affection without the blatant expectation that it will lead to sex turns us on, and then, often, WE initiate sex. Ann

[basilandthyme]

I got craft supplies in the mail today - that made me excited.

[Ann S]

LOLOL Ann

[basilandthyme]

FAlex, jokes aside, I think 'excited' is a very strong word. Perhaps the word you're actually looking for is lost in translation?

Frankly, I can't imagine my husband getting 'excited' (in a non sexual way) just being next to me - and I can't think of anything (non sexual) a man could do for me which would make me excited. Happy, Fun, Enjoyable, Looking forward to something....yes, he has me experiencing these emotions regularly - but he doesn't give me excitement per se.

The things which make me excited are not romantic things. The afore-mentioned craft supplies. A new pair of boots. Heading for a week skiing. A holiday on the beach. Riding an awesome wave.

[basilandthyme]

A kiss on the back of the neck while on an outing, holding hands, kissing an ear lobe, cheek, hand, etc. Do you really not know these things? Affection without the blatant expectation that it will lead to sex turns us on, and then, often, WE initiate sex. Ann

Interestingly enough, these things don't make me experience casual excitement. They make me feel love.

[pcmaster]

You want to say new boots will make you more excited than if your husband pulls his cocky out in front of you?

[michelle23]

I remember being in the cinema on a date when I first met my man and he took off his hoodie. His t-shirt went up to reveal some seriously hot abs! Kissing him also turned me on.

But now that we are together a long time-I get turned on easily because I know its gonna be worth my while