Originally Posted by
Dorkette
Wow. What a bunch of overreacters. I have asked this question in other forums and have not had this kind of reaction on any of them. Some of this stuff here is just...wow.
This is the worst. Yeah my nonsense. You clearly understand me better than I do. And thanks for insulting both me and my family. And why do I HAVE to stop? If I don't, is the world going to stop turning? Is your house going to collapse? Will the bird flu go airborne? Tell me, why is it so imperative that I stop? You're doing good out there, just keep it up.
Way too many assumptions here. How can you assume to know so much about me? I find foam collars comfortable, because they are soft. I like wearing them, which is a bit off beat. I'm aware of this. I am not fearful of the future, nor do I have underlying anxiety problems. I did, in fact, briefly see a therapist about this issue. She said it was hardly a big deal, said I seemed well adjusted socially, and thankfully didn't try to prescribe me any pills. She said trying to repress it would, however, almost surely lead to anxiety and other problems. She did warn me that I would likely face the situation I'm currently in, and would have to deal with it one way or another. I only went to her three times, but I felt alot better about this afterwards. Sadly I didn't take her advice and plan for my current dilemma. I'm AM fearful, however, of getting a reaction from my BF like I have from this particular forum. Thanks for your help, friend. You didn't offer any advice for opening up about this, and instead just assumed I'm some head case who needs cognitive behavioral therapy. I'm here for F##$#$#KING relationship advice, not psychiatric advice, Dr. Assumestoomuch. Have a nice day!
Remarkably insightful. I don't think I'll ever have any questions about relationships again. I can appreciate sarcasm, but I don't see how it is appropriate when I'm asking a personal question here. And short of a serious neuromuscular disorder, it's impossible to "lose all the muscle in my neck". They could become weak, sure, but there's this magical thing people do called exercise! Thanks for your "concern" though.
So again, thank you so much loveforum.net members, for all of your remarkably insightful advice. I haven't got a reaction nearly as over reactive or just plain demeaning anywhere else. This place must be special. No one even bothered to take a step back and realize I'm not hurting anybody, or shooting heroin, before diagnosing me with multiple mental problems or outright insulting me. God forbid someone offer a bit of advice on how to approach telling my BF, and I'm really screwed if he's like the people here. You're not helping anyone with "advice" like that. So maybe YOU should stop YOUR nonsense. I'm done here, I doubt I'll be returning to read whatever rebuttals you may come up with. Have a nice day!