luved him for 8 years

[innocent14]

i am a girl who has loved a guy for about 8 years now. i met him in kindergarten. My mom and his mom used to be good friends but when we moved that was when it all happened. Since then, i have never talked to him. Now we go different schools. This year i have found out his email address. I talked to him... and i asked him if he remembered me from kindergarten. He said no. He couldn't remember anything. He couldn't even remember the times when we played with each other when we were young. I felt really hurt and disappointed. For some reason it has kept me all these years and i never forgot him. I asked him so many times if he could remember me and reminded him the times we played. I guess i was quite annoying but i really wanted him to remember. Finally, i figured out he blocked me...caused i probably asked him so many questions. I really want him to remember but i guess i cant. I want to tell him i really feel about him. I want to meet each other sometime and just hang out. What should i do?

[Cybog]

I want to tell him i really feel about him. I want to meet each other sometime and just hang out. What should i do?

haha. You obsessive compulsive stalker. What you need to do is consider therapy by a licensed counselor.

You "Love" someone who you knew 8 years ago, and you were 6 or seven years old? Are you ****ing kidding me?

You are 14 freaking years old! You have pined and obsessed over this fictitious character in your head, and then given him the same name as this child that you played hopscotch with.

You do not know this person. Read again:

YOU DO NOT KNOW THIS PERSON.

You know the glamorized and built up version of someone who does not exist, and literally wasted 8 years of free thought over an idea or concept called Obsession and in turn called it Love instead.

Seek help. Forget this stupidity. Move on. He has already spelled it out for you to leave him alone. It is time for you to do just that.

[shh!]

Jeez! I don't think I'd recognize half the people I went to high school with!

Well, basically, I agree with Cybog's post, but I would have said it a lot nicer because you are a kid. Move on, sweetie. There's nothing there for you. If he's blocked you, he doesn't want anything to do with you.

[bluesummer]

I know it sounds cliche, but there are a million fish in the sea. Just because you've had a crush on this guy for 8 years (a CRUSH), it doesn't mean you are 'meant to be' or that you should go out. Like Cybog said, you don't know this guy at all. May as well walk up to some random guy on the street and ask him out, it's about the same thing.

[Anonymous1]

I did the same thing with a guy. Our mums were best friends, so we basically grew up together. Then i became best friends with his sister and didnt really talk to him much. I still saw him alot tho, up until i was about 14, then after that i probably only saw him once or twice a year. Anyway i still thought i "loved" him, until just last year. I starting seeing him more, and realised that hes changed so much and i dont even know him. And this guy that i thought was so perfect was nothing special. I'd done exactly what Cybog said, just built up this image of this perfect guy who wasnt even what i thought. Your lucky cos your only 14 and you can get over him early... i just turned 20 lol. Although in my defence, i did know him a bit better than you know this guy lol. Anyway, yeh id say do what the others said and try to just forget about him.