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    Quote Originally Posted by brazilianuts View Post
    I believe he does it beause he really loves me.
    A common misconception. That isn't love, it's control because he distrusts you.

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    You say it's perfect when you're together. So you weren't together when he told you that he couldn't touch you because of who you'd slept with previously? You weren't together when he was demanding your passwords for your phone and facebook? You weren't together when he demanded you unfriend any male who he wasn't OK with?

    Tell me, does he think his behaviour is wrong? Does he ever apologise for saying the things he does?
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

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    Obsessed controling boyfriend keeps dumping me.
    Obsessed silly girlfriend keeps taking him back. You do not discribe love when you talk about your relationship with this man.
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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    Quote Originally Posted by Love'sReject View Post
    Because the guy has issues. If you don't want to keep getting dumped, quit getting back with him.
    ^ Sums up everything that I was going to say.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Love'sReject View Post
    Because the guy has issues. If you don't want to keep getting dumped, quit getting back with him.
    Ya got something right! Woohoo, you're learning.

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    He's always had common sense when it comes to Opening Posts.
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    Whatever you're smoking - share. It's obviously good.

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    I added... when it comes to opening posts.
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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    I think all these posters are wrong. I think you should take him back, trust him, and give him time. He will eventually get over his issues on his own, and you two can live happily ever after.

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    Well, she's doing that now anyway so might as well keep it up since it seems to be what she wants.

    This is about honour afterall.

    He's onher and offher all the time. 0.o
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    Quote Originally Posted by BackUpOrGetStng View Post
    I think all these posters are wrong. I think you should take him back, trust him, and give him time. He will eventually get over his issues on his own, and you two can live happily ever after.
    Spot on. Clearly the guy is bi-polar. Or misunderstood. Or having a tough time at the moment. Perhaps he's got PMS?









    Or maybe, just maybe, he's a complete dickhead.

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    Agree with Back. Love is like seed - first comes sprout that grows into flower and if you stay long enought with him then tree will grow.Name:  **** it.jpg
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    Awwwww! Thats nice!!! Thanks for your opinion
    Quote Originally Posted by BackUpOrGetStng View Post
    I think all these posters are wrong. I think you should take him back, trust him, and give him time. He will eventually get over his issues on his own, and you two can live happily ever after.

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    Hahahaha That made me laugh!
    Quote Originally Posted by Wakeup View Post
    Well, she's doing that now anyway so might as well keep it up since it seems to be what she wants.

    This is about honour afterall.

    He's onher and offher all the time. 0.o

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    Quote Originally Posted by brazilianuts View Post
    Awwwww! Thats nice!!! Thanks for your opinion
    I hope you realize that was sarcasm.

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