male 45-55. Middle class. Profession unimportant, but must be employed and able to support himself. Appearance is not important, but I would probably draw the line at someone who was morbidly obese. Height unimportant. Religion: Any religion OK, but must not push your views on me. Social drinker, non smoker. Attributes: Patient, kind, not prone to temper tantrums, doesn't yell or swear around me. Left wing or swinging voter. Must be an adventurous eater. Has a good work-life balance.
Me: (I'm glad I'm not doing this for real. I'd have a very tough time finding someone who'd take me on)
I'm the primary carer of my son who is disabled young man. He is likely to live with me for the medium/long term and will never be independent. He has behavioural issues on occasion which a man would need to be able to cope with in a respectful manner. I cannot work because of my duties as a carer. But I'm a damn good cook - so I could be the domestic goddess.
I'm 45, average weight, 5'7". Left school at 16 and have been continually employed until I became a mother/carer. I'm calm tempered (except with some particular developers who's proposal will have devastating effects on my home and family) and like to solve problems without raised voices. I like to laugh at stupid stuff and get serious about important stuff. I ski in winter and surf in summer. My perfect man would enjoy both activities with me - within the limitations of my duties as a carer.
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