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    guys perspective on friends with benefits?

    so me and my old fwb fell for eachother, or atleast i fell for him and he acted like he care.
    we acted like gf & bf and we even dated a little, we would literally talk all day everyday.
    although, he was in a relationship- i know i was wrong, he loved her a lot, he lost his virginity to her.
    anyways, do you think he thinks about me sometimes like i think about him? he texted me the other day and told me he loved me.
    we hungout the other day and all we did was fight, then he messaged me telling me he doesn't care about me,
    what do these mixed signals mean? and he's also still with the girl.

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    There is no mixed signals, my dear. You're his piece on the side and the only thing he cares about is his root.
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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    Wow this guy has two chicks going? lol LR would be impressed.

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    Why do you settle for scraps? Find a guy whose behavior and words match when he tells you he loves you. This guy isn't that! Ann
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    Tell his gf the truth or at least tell someone who will tell someone who will tell her. She doesnt deserve to live this lie and tell him to f**k off, cut contact with him and move on with your life.

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    If he with a girl you are another person he ****s, it is up to you if you want that.

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    Why beat yourself up over it. He clearly doesn't know what he wants, so its up to you to go out and get what you want.

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