Wants Marriage Can't Decide Between EX-BF and BF

[sharkybite]

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[Boisdevie]

So you'd consider marrying a man (ex BF) because he has more money even though he doesn't do anything for you physically? Jeez, you do have a perverted sense of values my dear. You're not a hooker by any chance because they also **** their clients for money and it seems that you're basically considering doing the same. I feel sorry for both guys. You really must have a velvet lined pussy or something.

[VincenzoG91]

$400,000 in student loans? How is that even possible? A year at Harvard only costs $40,000.

Ex: Your ex is your ex for reasons that aren't going away. You aren't attracted to him, and his family doesn't like your ethnicity. What are you going to do: constantly avoid your in-laws and close your eyes every time you have sex? Ridiculous. And the fact that he has been waiting for you to come back for two years is a warning sign of low self-esteem.

Bf: You want to marry a guy that you've only known for a year? Are you crazy? That's great that you're attracted to him physically, but his looks and physique will eventually fade. And how is it possible that a guy completed a couple of years of med school while maintaining six-pack abs? And then there is that bizarre number. You know that "k" is short for "thousand," right? So 400k means $400,000. And somehow he has racked up all that debt without even finishing med school, which sounds fantastic and bizarre. But even if that is true, a medical doctor graduating from such an expensive university should probably be able to pay those loans back with a decade and still live a pretty nice life. Except for the debt, I'm not seeing any minuses here.

Logically, you should choose the current boyfriend. But you sound extremely greedy and ruthless, and I question the judgment of either of these guys for wanting to marry you. Are you one of those women who became a nurse just so she could meet doctors? Or do you just lurk near med schools hoping to find handsome and gullible future doctors?

[VincenzoG91]

Maybe your current boyfriend made up that $400k debt amount, to assess your reaction. Or maybe he is really bad at handling money.

[smackie9]

Go where the money is.....

[VincenzoG91]

I think the Monopoly Man is still single.

[BuckDamon]

marry your latest bf