Is my girlfriend getting bored of me?

[HTbrownies]

I have been dating this girl for about 7 months and things have been great up until now. We started dating in late september and She suffers from hereditary depression that gets worse in the winter. During the winter months she would often feel very down and depressed about her self and I would always build her up and make her feel better by cuddling with her and talking for hours with her about her life. At one point we even cried together. She would say things like "im so thankful for you" and "your my world" and we would often talk about our future together.

Now as spring and summer are arriving, this side of her is disappearing. Her personality has almost completely changed. She just over all is a more "sassy" person. We used to text alot during the day video chat often, but now we can hardly hold a conversation over text and she never wants to video chat anymore and I often feel like im boring her. In person we hardly ever "fool around" anymore. She does not seem to want to cuddle as much as she did before. Other than those things she still expresses affection towards me and It feels like she wants to be with me.

Is this all in my head? What is happening?

thanks for reading and any response is appreciated

[basilandthyme]

Let's not play guessing games with what's going on in her head. Instead, let's look at what YOU need in a relationship.

First, do you want a woman who has significant seasonal depression? Doesn't it get tiring being her support?

Second, is this "sassy" and uninterested person who you want to be with in the summer time?

If the answer to either of these questions is "no", then dump her and move on.

[michelle23]

I agree.

Decide what you want. I personally could not be with someone whos personality changes every 6 months or so. My friend has the same depression and I know I could not be with someone like that.