Am I doing it RIGHT????

[MMJ]

Hi friends,

So once again am back with a situation and am not sure to if am doing things right....

As I said my girlfriend has been keeping away from me for the past one month. She has been trying to jus avoid me... Whenever I ask her a thing about that she jus said she had some "PROBLEM" she had to deal with it..
once its all clear she will get back with me... But she has not yet opened up to what the problem is...

She has always been asking me to be silent for a few days and leave her in peace... I tried my best to stay along with her and console her... but all she said was just leave me alone..

So yesterday I told her that I wont be texting or calling you anymore.. cause that is all she wanted to be in peace.. Am feeling very bad now about staying away from her... She is the one whom I send my first and last text of the day and now things without her are already so dull around me.. I cant stop thinking about her...

Is the decision what I made with her is correct one...
As I ve promised her I cant get with my text and calls... even though she is not responding to any


is this all correct???

[michelle23]

Why dont you make the decision for her so you can get out of limbo and start moving on. If she really loved you, wanted to be with you and cared about your feelings-she would not leave you hanging like this for a month wondering what the hell is going on. Its selfish, cruel and unfair.

Stop pining for her, sitting around and waiting. Send her a simple text saying "were finished, cant do this anymore" and move on with your life.

Its over anyway man. She wouldnt avoid you for a month if she really wanted to be with you and your just hurting yourself more by clinging on, hoping that she will come back. Its highly unlikely. Shes on the way out, distancing herself emotionally and preparing you for the inevitable break up so just put both of you out of your misery and end it.

The sooner you stop denying the inevitable, the sooner you can get over her and accept that this relationship has run its course

I know its hard but right now you are just being a doormat, letting her call all the shots and waiting for her to say "jump" so you can say "how high". She will just lose more and more respect for you. Show her what your worth and show her that you will not allow her to treat you this way. If nothing else, at least you will gain her respect for putting your foot down and not tolerating all her drama anymore.

Best of luck

[MMJ]

@michelle23 am jus holding on now cause when I questioned her to if everything is over and she just wants to leave she comes back immediately and says I beg you plz understand me.. I wil surely get back in a few days...

My heart is just clinging to this word now that she will surely come back someday... Am not able to walk out of this only for that reason.. I have never known love so deep and truly...

Everytime I thnk I should stop it and let it go. My heart keeps saying like "what if she is really in a problem and needs you when she is out of it.."
I couldn't do a thing now....