Very small erection during sex

[Porche911Turbo]

I searched through the forums, found posts alike this one but they didnt answer my question. So please excuse me.

My problem:

When masterbating, my erection is fine, no problems at all. But lately when having sex I either dont get one or get a really small one... I DONT GET IT!
I felt really embarassed yesterday with my GF. I had a small erection, did her for a lil bit but then it went away.

PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE! Btw, I am 16

[shh!]

I think you are kind of young for sex; maybe you are experiencing guilt about it. Are you Catholic? Otherwise, avoid drugs/alcohol as they can cause impotence. Stop masturbating; it reduces the "urgency" you might otherwise have.

ALWAYS use condoms ALONG WITH the girl using some sort of birth control to reduce chance of STDs and pregnancy. NO EXCUSES!

[Junket]

I'll forgive this poster as he claimed he searched for his answer in other threads.

Anyway yeah, remember sex is probably like 90% mental.

If there's too much activity goin' on up in your head, your other head probably won't be able to function as well.

Don't get stressed over it, just try to go with the flow.

[tisay]

But lately when having sex I either dont get one or get a really small one...

perhaps you can watch some porn movie before having sex to improve your urge..

[whaywardj]

Maybe it wants a friggin' rest.

I agree with Fras and Shh! It's all in your head(s). Relax. One of them has a mind of its own. (Which one has is, sometimes, difficult to know in a male.) Trying to MAKE it do what it doesn't want to just makes things worse. Sometimes, you (or she) gotta tease it into play.

16 IS pretty young to be dicking around. Be careful, man. Really. NEITHER of you want her pushing babies or your c*ck pushing puss.

[boobaa]

Cut it off.

[whaywardj]

You old enough to be on this board, boobaa? Do your mommy and daddy know you talk like that?

[Junket]

Cut it off.

That'll show the little bastard who's boss!

[Illusional]

shh... hahaha at age 16 you can't reduce the urgency by masterbation... it will only help you relieve stress at that age.

raverboy

[Iminlove]

You guys leave him alone it is his life if he wants to have sex don't discourage him I am 15 and I have sex all the time and if he ends up getting her pregnant it is his fault and since he thinks he is old enough to have sex he should be old enough to take full responsibility with the consequences and me I have already come close to being a father and I was ready to take full responsibility to love and to take care of the baby and my girlfriend.

[shh!]

Hey, 15 year old boy - you aren't even old enough to work a real job yet, and certainly don't have the education a good job requires. Just how were you going to financially take care of yourself, your girlfriend AND a baby? HAve you got a tree that produces dollar bills growing in your back yard?

[indigosoul]

Hey, 15 year old boy - you aren't even old enough to work a real job yet, and certainly don't have the education a good job requires. Just how were you going to financially take care of yourself, your girlfriend AND a baby? HAve you got a tree that produces dollar bills growing in your back yard?

Furchrissake Shh! Stop being such a mom... you know its not like they're gonna stop! Just repeat your previous post & hope it will sink in:

ALWAYS use condoms ALONG WITH the girl using some sort of birth control to reduce chance of STDs and pregnancy. NO EXCUSES!

ALWAYS use condoms ALONG WITH the girl using some sort of birth control to reduce chance of STDs and pregnancy. NO EXCUSES!

ALWAYS use condoms ALONG WITH the girl using some sort of birth control to reduce chance of STDs and pregnancy. NO EXCUSES!

[Asip4u]

shh! uses her mom skils on here, what's wrong with that? I think it's cool. Repeating it makes it sound like so many incompetent moms that i know. Same exact things over and over to their kids and not giving real advice. No wonder there's so many ****ed up kids out there. Eventually you WILL get through to them.

[shh!]

Thanks for your vote of confidence, Asip, and I wouldn't call them "mom skills" - I would call them "common sense" skills. The "mom skills" produced the "wear a condom" responses, the common sense responses are used to combat stupidity.

[Asip4u]

Thanks for your vote of confidence, Asip, and I wouldn't call them "mom skills" - I would call them "common sense" skills. The "mom skills" produced the "wear a condom" responses, the common sense responses are used to combat stupidity.

yea, not exactly the type of terminology i wanted to use but i guess it gets the point across.