I've known guys with very little formal education who are just about the most considerate guys I've ever met; his education or lack there of is not an excuse. As for him not knowing how to treat women...I never read a book on how to treat men - did you? And it sure wasn't covered during my degree. I just know how to treat people - with respect and consideration. You might have a lot of work ahead of you...hopefully, he can listen and learn.