Looking for some advice!

[Chr1sm]

I have already posted this in a separate subforum, but I need more people to help, specifically adults. Thanks.
Ill start with the situation:
So Im currently in 9th grade, very mature for my age both physically and mentally. I am relatively fit (school basketball team, second best shot putter on team as freshman, swim, etc), funny, and very smart. This year, I got to know one of my classmates, and we soon grew closer. At first, we were just friends, although I did have something for her, she had a bf and I didn't chase after her. However, about two or more months ago, she dumped her bf, and immediately, I fell for her even more (ik ppl will talk about young love and shit, but pls just read on). So we went to places together, hanged out, went to parties together and all, with our friends. During this time, she has showed some interest in me, but I'm not sure if I am interpreting her actions incorrectly or what. She often tickles me, and i tickle her back, and playful things like that. however, im usually the one who says i want a hug, or for her to lean on me or sit w me, which she does not hesitate and does. So like I said before, we grew even closer. I had asked her out before, to go for a walk in a nearby park, but a bunch of friends tagged along, so I wouldn't consider that a date. So yesterday, while at a friends house, I told her I wanted to see her before I leave for the summer, and asked if she wants to catch a movie today. She immediately agreed, so I gave her two theaters and the available times. She then says she has to ask for permission. So this morning, I texted her, tellin her we should go to the later one, since she had told me to decide on a time. She then texts back, asking me when I'm leaving for camp. Her reason was that "bc idk if can do anything early today" and she immediately wanted to reschedule, after I come back from camp, three weeks later. However, I am leaving for another country the day after I return from camp, and not returning till a week before school. So I said, "So I guess we can do somethin then, the week before school. Throughout the conversation, she continuously apologized w a bunch of sad faces, and you can tell she is making an effort to reschedule. So now I am kind of upset, but not angry.

I guess my question from all that is:
Am I being rejected?
Does she actually like me?
Should I be worried that she may find someone else? As she is going to my school band camp, and has the summer to hang out with some friends I have seen her spend alone time with at parties, and I won't have wifi out of country to talk with her.
In the worst case, which I really hope doesnt happens, if she gets asked out by someone else or looses her interest in me over the summer, should I just move on?
What should I do now, since I'm leavin for camp tomorrow?

Thanks in advance, and I look forward to hearing your responses and advice.

Chris

[michelle23]

Your leaving for what? 2months? I wouldnt waste my time either. Sorry to be blunt. If your both still single at the end of the summe-ask her out. If not, its only a crush and youll get over it. Im not saying that coz your young. Id say the same thing to someone ten years older. Right now it is just a crush coz nothing has happened between you.

[smackie9]

Dude there isn't a reason to get upset. Obviously you both have some restrictions on when you two can go out and it's not working...oh well maybe another time. Why should you two commit to something when you are going to be away for the summer....anything can happen between now and then. She could meet someone, you could meet someone...so there is no point in getting yer s hit tied in a knot over this.

[4 ratties]

Enjoy camp and summer and quit worrying about girls. You have a lifetime to do that.