she said i was suffocating her but now we seem fine

[zachhero]

my girlfriend, 3 weeks ago said i was sort of suffocating her because i was always wanting to hang out. i told her i would back off a bit and i did. now she is always wanting to hang out. i have no problem with it, but i just don't understand how her attitude changed so fast. she is saying she loves me now and all that

it is just weird how she said i was suffocating her by always wanting to hang out but she is like that now

maybe she realized how much she cares about me?

[basilandthyme]

Zach, I think she just needed a bit of space so that she could initiate seeing you sometimes. I would find it difficult if I didn't have space to lead at least a little.

[smackie9]

It will play in your favor to be a little distant, aloof, don't answer texts right away, give one work answers, and reply with, busy ttyl. If you make yourself a challenge to her she will be chasing you hard.