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    Help Please

    Hi this is my first post
    My problem is I have been going out with girlfriend for 4 weeks untill this morning. Everything has been fine untill this week we came back from a camping trip and all was fine untill monday when she finished work. I was staying at her house as I was on a day off. Her mood had completely changed she was telling me she was stressed but she's ok. This went on through the week and ended up with an argument on Thursday. We was arguing because I have been a little clingy this week. Didn't relise I was I was concerned because of how different she appeared but it turns out I was stressing her out more and not giving her space wich she told me too.
    Now she has finished with me and said she doesn't want a needy clingy boyfriend. Can I get her back?

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    i doubt you were needy/clingy. she just wasnt that into you. move on. you will meet someone else who enjoys spending time with you
    "Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".

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    Dude she wanted it over for awhile now....she finally found a way out by having this argument. Michelle is right, she just wasn't that into you, especially when she was that quick to end it.

    You are not a bad person, the chemistry just wasn't there. It's only a month, that is hardly enough time invested, just move on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Manchester guy View Post
    Hi this is my first post
    My problem is I have been going out with girlfriend for 4 weeks untill this morning. Everything has been fine untill this week we came back from a camping trip and all was fine untill monday when she finished work. I was staying at her house as I was on a day off. Her mood had completely changed she was telling me she was stressed but she's ok. This went on through the week and ended up with an argument on Thursday. We was arguing because I have been a little clingy this week. Didn't relise I was I was concerned because of how different she appeared but it turns out I was stressing her out more and not giving her space wich she told me too.
    Now she has finished with me and said she doesn't want a needy clingy boyfriend. Can I get her back?
    Clingy? I can see her point....you have only been dating for less that 4 weeks and you are hanging around at her house. Maybe she is right, maybe you are too clingy. Maybe you should learn about giving your GF space on a regular basis and have a life outside the relationship like spending more time with your buddies shooting hoops or something.

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