Hi all.
So the story is im married and we have been together for 15 years.
Now there is this girl at work who has a boyfriend that she seems happy with.
I find her very attactive, but didnt think of persuing anything with her.
However of the past couple of months she has been emailing almost everyday. Just general chat, a little flirty but nothing major.
Lately it has been from when she gets home to when she goes to sleep, and always ends with "sweet drems". As well as times when i know she is with her boyfriend...like on his birthday, or in the middle of them having dinner together.
My problem is that since i have gotten to know her better i have fallen for her in a way that i have never felt about anyone before.... I feel horrible....and starting to get depressed because all i think about is her.
Any thoughts or advice on how to figure out what she is thinking / feeling without flat out asking her and telling her how i feel??
Since we work together i dont want things to get uncomfortable, but i need to find out if this is just her being friendly or something else.
I have never cheated before and i need to find the answer so i can clear my head..... Feeling very confused and pained at the moment