You guys were right!

[Diego89]

Cosmetic surgery can't improve my love life. I went through a few hundred before and afters of cosmetic procedures and I struggled to find any examples where the after looked significantly better than before. These are supposed to be the creme de la creme of their procedures, the ones their proud to advertise. Unfortunately they rarely show any meaningful improvement.

I took your suggestions and looked into some counselling. It's a group therapy session and I feel it will go a long way in improving my personal issues.

That being said, I still think it's a worthwhile endeavor to try to improve my physical appearance if I want to lose my virginity. However my efforts should be redirected into other areas. I'm planning on growing some facial hair and I just purchased a gym membership for the next 6 months. I'm already getting into the routine of going to the gym. With a good nights sleep, better hair style and some muscle bulk I think I am on the right path. Here's how my facial hair is coming a long:

[michelle23]

stop worrying about your looks. with the right attitude and personality you will attract the right people. women are not obsessed with looks the way men are. most men think hes not a man unless his gf is a 10/10 even if she has an awful personality.. women dont think that way. we want a guy who is honest, decent, loyal, hardworking and stable. all of that is attractive as well as confidence, being positive and making an effort to stay fit and healthy and wearing nice clothes.

[namemyname]

Good job!!

[Millie]

Diego what's supposed to be wrong with the way you look?

[Diego89]

Diego what's supposed to be wrong with the way you look?

I have a weak chin, a bulging lower lip, weak jaw, drooping nasal tip, very high forehead, and eyes too round and too close-set.



I look like Mr. Bean



Actually, that's being too generous. He looked a fair bit better than me when he was younger.

[Millie]

You look nothing like Mr Bean lol. Sounds like you're your own worst critic, if you went to a cosmetic surgeon and said all that they most likely wouldn't operate anyway, they don't tend to if they think you have unrealistic expectations and/or think that the patient will never be satisfied with the outcome

[Empty Road]

Good looks might get you the first date, but a good personality will get her to want more.

[namemyname]

You're hilarious! Mr. Bean. NOT. lol

You have the kind of body that with a little muscle, you'll really look amazing, AND, it will do wonders for your confidence.

Join the forums at bodybuilding dot com. You'll find some great advice and support.

[Diego89]

You're hilarious! Mr. Bean. NOT. lol

You have the kind of body that with a little muscle, you'll really look amazing, AND, it will do wonders for your confidence.

Join the forums at bodybuilding dot com. You'll find some great advice and support.

I'm already a member of the bb forums

[namemyname]

I'm already a member of the bb forums

Good deal! I hope you're getting a lot out of it. Just stay away from the Teen forum. Those boys just get off on cracking on each other, and I see teen boys posting threads that are very heartfelt and vulnerable, and the guys beat the shit out of the OP. It's painful to watch. I forget how cruel young boys can be...

[VerticalMoon]

I have a weak chin, a bulging lower lip, weak jaw, drooping nasal tip, very high forehead, and eyes too round and too close-set.

You're being much too critical of yourself. You have nice big eyes, a pretty nose, pretty full lips, and your facial structure is fine.

Good luck with your group counseling. I went to group counseling because of my shyness when I was younger. The group I was in had really good chemistry between everyone so it ended up being a lot of fun. I hope you have a similar experience.

[searock]

As Michelle said, stop focusing so much on looks. Girls don't care about looks as much as guys do. Be confident, funny, intelligent, bright, passionate, kind, ... these are things girls (that are worth "having") care about.

[trevor]

As Michelle said, stop focusing so much on looks. Girls don't care about looks as much as guys do. Be confident, funny, intelligent, bright, passionate, kind, ... these are things girls (that are worth "having") care about.

i want 2 know how important r looks 2 girls???

[sadbunnyface]

I don't think you should have ever felt you needed to consider plastic surgeries. Working out will get you feeling happier and more excited about your life and self, especially when you start seeing the results you are yourself working hard for, not some results a surgeon sculpted you. Even putting on 10 + lbs will change your face ... Best of luck with your counseling and you don't look like Mr Bean at all but if you have even a slight bit of his funny sense of humor, bonus.