Introduction

[JonathanP]

Well my name is Jonathan and I am a very old 30.

I just got finished with a divorce and I am now heading out to go looking again. I am checking this place out for questions and answers when I start dating again. I have started dating but there are so many losers out there it is ridiculous. Because of the variety of people that are out there. It is hard to find a companion. I figure this would be a nice place to get a thumbs up or a thumbs down. Because I already have one question locked and loaded. I understand that this is not a dating service here and that is not why I am here. I am here to get opinions about the issues I run into.

A little about myself.

Hard working - I have 1 full time job in the information technology field. I have 1 part time job as a Farrier "Someone that shoes horses".

My horses - Since I am a farrier, I of course have horses and they come before anything. Because there the only ones that listen to me when I am pissed off and don't give me a flack. So there really nice to me in that aspect. I guess you can say that they are my get away from life.

My friends - I have a lot of friends that helped me through the divorce and I really appreciate everything that they have done for me. I always go to my friends because they are my immediate go to people.

Hard working pays off - Well I was 22 when I purchased my new home, and then I was 25 when I purchased my second home "Vacation Home" with a boat load of acres in the mountains of WV.

Greatest aspect about me - I would say that my friends always note to me about my maturity and not a care in life. Meaning that my maturity has much variety to it. I am pretty intelligent when I need to be. I am also the person that is the life of the party with a wierd hat on my head jumping off the roof of the house into the pool. And boy to I like the throw a good party. A real party. Not some drunk fest, because I really hate those. I am also very intuitive. I like thinking of original things to come up with when I am with my companion. I like the one time she wanted to go out and I tried my hardest to come up with something that was different. Then I took her and went on a "Dinner Train" with a murder mystery theme that had actors and everything. I love going out and trying something new. I had such a good time that I emailed the acting company and had them come to one of my parties and do a Murder Mystery act.

So why divorced? - Because I walked into my house and went up to the bedroom and found a man in the bed with her and it wasn't me. Too bad for him because I took his clothes, Slashed the tires on his truck and made him walk home naked. Since I live in the country, it was a long walk to the first phone that he could find. I just hoped that he didn't get "IT" sunburned. The hardest part of it was that I had no symptoms of it coming. That is probably the hardest part that I am going through. Because I had no warning so I don't know what I did that failed the marriage. I even asked her and she said that it just happened. My friends and even her friends were shocked that it happened. They said that there was nothing that I did wrong and she never said anything to them. So I am left with a empty spot wondering what I did wrong. It is almost like I have no closure.

My kids? - They are my horses. No human kids yet.

Hobbies? - Everything that has an adrenaline rush. Then after I get my fix, I like to chill and do something cool.

My house parties - A lot of people show up to my parties. I usualy throw one every three months and I like to keep them unique. As you know I had the murder mystery party. "The famous Halloween party", "Live band party", "Prom Party (when everyone dresses up in there old senior home coming outfit", "Dress up Party", "Dress down party (This is the best one)". They are not the loud or anything. No one gets out of hand. It makes it even better because my one friend donates his house and all of the kids get dropped off there where they have a slumber party with a couple of baby sitters there. The baby sitters make out pretty good because I have the Baby sitter donation bucket at the party. The same babysitters do it everytime because they make about $800 dollars. The parties are really fun and very organized.

Well I think I ran my mouth enough for now. It is a pleasure to meet you guys.

jp

[Tone]

Welcome Jonathan, sorry to hear about the divorce, but it's for the best... I have a friend in Texas who came home to find his best friend and his wife in his bedroom.. he went outside, took the tractor/fork lift thingy he was working with, lifted the guy's car up and planted it right on top of her car, then left.

[missguided.rose]

I'm sorry to hear about the reason for divorce =( It always breaks my heart and astounds me how people can even fathom doing such a thing.

I hope this forum helps you and gives you some good advice or friendship or whatever it is you seek from it =)

All the best. ^_^

[shh!]

Welcome, Jonathan! I want to go to one of your parties, but not the prom one because I skipped mine and don't have a dress! Do you wear a cowboy hat?

Sorry about your wife - she makes women look bad. I guess it is good you have no kids yet.

[JonathanP]

Not all the time. I only wear one when I am shoeing. Because it keeps the sun off of my neck when I am trimming or putting a shoe on a horse. And I don't have cowboy boots neither. I used to have a pair but I just don't like them very much. Yeah, anyone with good morals and character are invited to my parties. I try to keep a theme thing so that it weeds out the losers that want to show up and get trashed then start a fight "because it requires effort to show up, and losers like to do things with no effort.". But that never happens because everyone is aware that a couple of my friends are ex-seals.

The dress down party is the best one. Because the idea is to see who can dress down the most. The best on that I saw yet was a friend mine showed up and it was funny. She had a fake mink coat, trashbag for a skirt, one shoe and a old snow boot. It was a classic.

[artyemi]

jp. i didn't read your long intro.

i can't read.

i also can't write.

when i'm drunk.

and when i'm in bed.

eh. i'm cheesy.

welcome.

[Illusional]

you're 30 and you like dragon ball z. nice.

raverboy