I had a brief but intense romance with a guy when I was studying abroad a few months ago. We knew each other from December 2012, but started dating at the end of March and continued until I left the country in May. The connection was really intense and passionate, probably elevated by the language/cultural barrier. Anyway, when I came home I realized I really wanted to see him again. Perhaps take a vacation together somewhere in the fall. From there, I don't know what would happen, but I would be open to the possibility of a long-distance relationship since we are both such avid travelers.
Anyway, I wrote him a letter detailing the feeling of "I want to see you again" (amongst other life updates of course, haha). I made no reference to relationships or love or anything like that, merely just that the idea of seeing him again made me really happy.
A few days ago I finally received his reply, and his section regarding "feelings" is very hard to read for me. It's as follows:
"I had always problems in this field because it was always hard for me to be attached to someone or to start having feelings in a certain way. It happened to me close relationships when I saw the other person starting feeling to much. I can sounds kind of sad but that’s what happened…and I don’t know why things went so often like this…if it’s just because I have such a thirst of adventures and novelty, if it’s because I’m traveling so much that I try to avoid this feelings, or if it’s just because I’m afraid of exposing myself too much (after a bad experience that I had with my first, and actually only real one, girlfriend)…I don’t really know, and probably it’s a mix of all this, and I never thought too much on that because I enjoyed like anyway and maybe even more.
But despite all this where I realize I just don’t know how to express myself properly I would be of course happy to see you again and I’m the last person which is afraid of some insignificant water!!"
I can't determine if he's preemptively saying that a relationship is out of the question or if he is saying that seeing me is an exception to this rule. (His english isn't making it much easier to determine haha!)
I know I should take it well that he is being so open with me and that he says he wants to see me again as well, but I now feel like I need to be careful in doing something that will seem intense and make him think things are moving too fast.
So, what I have come here to ask you guys is #1 What do you think he is trying to say here? #2 How can I reply to these sentiments in a way that will not "come on too strong" but still show my interest?
Thank you!!